So I went to a second date with a girl, eventually we were at her house kissed a lot , sucked her tits , dry humped , I asked if she a virgin , she said yes (don't know if really yes but I felt like she is) , all was good but then her mom cockblocked me and I had to go ( she is 21).

This is where I think I fucked up , on the way home I wrote her "next time we'll finish it, good night". Then I completely lost all contact , you can say I ghosted her but not really , I was simply very busy with my job , my thing and my social groups , meanwhile I tried gaming other girls.

So basically we had no contact, I didn't initiate (she didn't too) since I didn't have time to schedule another date. This week I have time , so I text her casually , thinking it will drive her crazy but nope guess I was wrong , she didn't reply , didn't even saw and it's already the next day. Guess I was outcome dependent since I really hoped to fuck her brains out the third date. I really felt like I played all my cards right.

So now , do I soft next her ass or something else?