She misbehaved and I've started the soft next and everything went according to plan - she started to realise her mistake and did things to win my approval, to correct herself. But other guys sensed that we have issues to fight through and are trying to mate poach.

So here is the problem: 1. During a soft next you don't give her attention and are kinda boring. They are the exact opposite - happy, fun, make you look butthurt, etc. 2. If you stop the soft next and mark your territory - she wins and they win - you look weak and jealous. I think that you should do nothing But If she accept his moves - this a thing that could make the soft next to hard next. What do you guys think?

Also how do you not look boring and butthurt during a soft next with a partner who is physically present?