I’ve recently started dating my ex girlfriend again. She was a good girl, but not the most attractive. We get along well.

While we were apart I slept around quite a bit with pretty party girls. One in particular never caused drama and I loved the sex. She would come over dressed in lingerie and have crazy, passionate sex with me. Deep throated like a champ. Naturally I continued seeing her because I didn’t want to lose the sex and I enjoyed her.

She found out I had a girlfriend and lost it. She told me I have no standards and she’s disgusted she slept with someone who’s girlfriend looks like a man. She messaged my girlfriend and all my girlfriends friends. She sent pictures of us, dirty text messages, me sending her my addresses, and dating profiles. I just left it alone because I don’t deal with drama. I denied the whole thing to my girlfriend and she believed me. I told he stop bringing it up because I don’t like high school shit.

A few months passed and I’m still horny for my old side chick. I met other girls, but I loved how she was in bed. Right away she told me to “go fuck a tranny since that seems to be my type” and “I’m a social girl and I know what I loser you must be if you date someone that looks like that”. She goes off and tells my girlfriend again.

My girlfriend won’t stop looking through my phone and her friends are harassing me. It’s annoying as fuck. I just nope out every time it’s brought up. I blocked my old side chick because I don’t fuck with drama.

How do I handle this? I’m still kind of turned on by the side girl. My girlfriend is driving me insane. Did I lose value by dating my girlfriend?

EDIT: I wanted to add my roommate started fucking my old side girl. She’s coming over and having loud sex with him. I think she’s doing it to eventually run into my girlfriend and piss me off.