I was travelling and yesterday picked up a single mom while i was having dinner. She was dressed very eloquently and had a cougar vibe. I was horny (two weeks) and to me age is not an issue (for ons) as long they look hot.

She said she was 35 (m 32) and conversation progressed, she said she had a complicated situation etc but didn't tell much, and we moved to a bar. The moved to place right in front of her hotel (yeah she mentioned it). Then she dropped the i have a son. I just brushed off saying "good for you". I went in for the kiss after some time but she didn't respond. Then came the shit tests "you will just sleep with me and tomorrow bye bye",i said i can't answer that before it happens. I went for it again. She said something similar to last stuff. I said "so many conditions before the first kiss is not a good sign". She you say that to all the women. To which was "yeah all the time, you are the 20th today". We made out on the third time but there wasn't so much passion in the kiss. Then she started withdawing again.

I thought this is too much and asked if we could walk. We just walked and i made out slight and she said she has to go. And i was like sure "i cant come in until you invite me". She said no i have to go now, nice to meet you . And i was okay alright. End.

Now i think i came off too needy with the kisses. Any advice on how do you do it? I have noticed that i do that often (keep going for kisses) but i havent figured a way around it. How soon do you go for the kiss? How many times you try if she brushed it off?

Also how do you play single moms? I don't want any relationship or anything. But for just ons esp when travelling how do you deal with that.

Tear me apart. Looking to improve