SMV problem or wrong approach?

trpthroway123 · 2016-07-23T16:49:47+00:00

In general, guys get girls on their level to two levels down. If your game is really good, or there's something special about you, you can go up a notch or two. If you're a 3, you're fair game for the 1s and 2s.

Go lift. Lose weight. Talk to everyone you see. Improve yourself in every way. It won't change overnight, but a year or two down the line, the only thing you'll think is "why the fuck didn't I do this sooner?"

Eilonar · 2016-07-23T23:24:04+00:00

One of the reasons why The Red Pill gets a bad reputation on Reddit is, in my opinion, this simplified - binary, almost - view of the entire subject: "It's either alpha or beta". This makes so that people like you start talking about women, dates and TRP typical topic of discussion using the most popular catch words without really understand their meaning, making this entire community look bad. You talk about SMV, "old beta brain", "swallowing the pill" as if you're reading a script and following a dogma - and yet there you are, hitting on girls while you're fat. Reading the sidebar and accepting everything it's in there as dogma doesn't make you a better person: it makes you a brainless drone. You need to act upon your learnings, and no, you didn't do that. If you did, you'd never even think about approaching a girl before improving yourself.

Exercise, diet, get your driving license. After you lose enough weight, burn your wardrobe and get a set of outfits. Only at that point you should be thinking about dating.

CypherWolf21 · 2016-07-24T10:50:27+00:00

You've got way bigger problems than not being able to attract attractive women. Get your weight in check. Get your own apartment. Get a good career going. All these things will raise your SMV but more importantly allow you to be independent and put you in a position where you can spin plates.

RedAsBlood · 2016-07-24T15:05:09+00:00

Really attractive women will almost never approach you. Its just how it works.

As a man, if you want something, you have to work for it.

Use these ugos as an opportunity to practice your game. You dont have to go out with them or sleep with em, just practice flirting.

Good job with the weight loss so far, but you still have a long way to go.

Keep up the good work, get ripped. Practice approaching women. Don't get discouraged if you get shot down a lot.

PragmaticRedTruth · 2016-07-23T16:20:42+00:00

Haha reads "most of the sidebar."

You're a beta, and a heavy one too. You better lose some weight, or you're not going anywhere. I suggest you don't think about that car again, you walk your ass to the gym and start strong lifts until you're jacked as fuck in a couple of years.

Title	SMV problem or wrong approach?
Author	Amicus_of_fools
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	July 23, 2016 4:17 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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