Hear me out before bashing ya’ll. I feel like I have a pretty high SMV. I’m 6’1”, go to the gym every day, I’m tan and blue eyes, lots of friends and make more money then all of my friends. I’m pretty dang good at initiating and holding conversations and am currently spinning multiple plates.

Sometimes I think that girls might be overly intimidated by me possibly because of the way I carry myself and my high SMV. I’ve had multiple girls tell me after getting to know them a bit that they thought I either had a girlfriend or that they never had a real chance with me so they didn’t really try.

I don’t want to get carried away with this but how can I overcome this? How does someone like me who is good looking and has their life together seem more approachable and less intimidating without seeming too BP. I feel like it’s a hard line to dance on between BP overly approachable and nice compared to RP mysterious and intimidating. How can I let girls know that I’m open to encounters and I’m interested in them?