Long story short... married just over a year. Totally realizing that I got where I am by being a prototypical bb because well, I have physical issues that prevent some of the aspects of being alpha to develop ( ie I have a neuro disease that prevents me from looking great, and I am short ) but I am relatively high value as far as money and career. Issue is I somehow ( read "I am realizing it now, but holy shit did I screw myself) went from being an alpha which is how my wife wanted to me to being a beta and now she is all "you're being mean to me" when I ask her to explain what she is saying, or when I tell her to stop yelling.

In contrast I was pretty much mostly alpha "growing up" but due to medical issue and some stuff from HS I honestly got broken down. I also had no idea about the pills. 34 yo 5ft 4 200k+ income. feeling like I got lied to as far as her "feelings"

I have read the sidebar, but seriously, how do I remold frame here, or do I ? I need thoughtful replies Gents. thanks Feel free to ask particulars here or msg

thanks