Long story short me & plate have been talking once a week for 3 weeks now. The first week we talked otp for 20 min. She showed a lot of high interest & even praise. Which usually means “hey ask me to come over/out on a date.” She lives far & covid is still looming so I put her on ice. The 2nd week she decided not to reply. Figure it’s a shit test so I leave her alone. She texts me a week later with “hey” & after about 30 min I simply greet her back with “hey what’s up”. Then she doesn’t reply.

The fact that she lives far & I don’t want to travel with this Covid is probably why this hasn’t worked out but I still feel there’s other factors at play. I just want to learn as much as I can. So let me get to the question.

I follow a lot of RP coaches & when it comes to this particular topic, there’s two opposing perspectives. When texting/calling and the girl pulls back, you should definitely pull back and continue entertaining other women. Usually women will start complying.

But what if she continues to show iffyness? Some coaches advise to pull back even further and not budge until she submits. Other coaches advise that you should let her know that you value your time and threaten to walk away. To instill the idea that you want your woman to treat you as high value with high interest.

Just to lyk I’ve already decided to do the latter with her. I honestly don’t care about her so I was very much like “fuckit, let’s experiment.” In the future though, I’d like to know the answer bc I expect this “shit test” of sorts, in the future from girls that I’ll probably want to keep spinning. Both options make complete sense because indifference leads to the chase but letting her know you can walk away is powerful as well.