A plate "playfully" as she puts it calls me a faggot or a pussy. I don't think it's funny but I usually just dismiss it completely. We've had sex a few times but it's always vanilla.

The real big fat shit test though is when she started telling me about her crazy/kinky sexual fetishes and when the conversation escalated she said she only does that with people she's "intimidated by" not guys like me... feeling pretty shit about that one. Obviously I was too nice and presented myself like a BB provider type, correct?