Started reading No More Mr. Nice Guy, looking for a confidant / mentor.

blacwidonsfw · 2016-01-19T23:51:04+00:00

Just make a post here. That way you get hundreds of perspectives rather than just one dudes.

MentORPHEUS · 2016-01-20T04:06:14+00:00

Yes, this is where to post questions.

Its been a while since I read the book and don't have the exercises at hand, but send a PM if nothing else pans out. I was a nice guy (meaning no pussy) in my teens-mid 20s, now women consider me a good person and want to have sex with me.

Getting rid of covert contracts in your mind is an important step, how are you doing in this area?

yGTWgtNrco · 2016-01-20T05:01:20+00:00

Sure, I'm rereading it to refresh my memory. I could most certainly do the exercises with you. Let me know by PM.

rp_DRJ · 2016-01-20T11:29:25+00:00

brooooo

/r/RedPillReadingGroup

first months book is NMMNG... get amongst it

yGTWgtNrco · 2016-01-23T03:57:15+00:00

Breaking Free -- Activity #5 response:

If you did not care what people thought of you, how would you live your life differently?

Were I not to care what society thought of me, I'd probably do cryptographic research full-time on my own instead of software development, which I do to pay the bills.

How would my relationships be different were I not concerned with the approval of the opposite sex?

I'm not sure they'd be any different in practical terms, I'd still be with my girlfriend. But I wouldn't feel the need to do anything about the pressure from the 100+ family members who are constantly asking me when I'm getting married.

yGTWgtNrco · 2016-01-28T07:40:44+00:00

Breaking Free Activity #7

Do you believe that people can see your human imperfections and still love you?

Some can, others can't. Those that can't won't love me in the first instance. However, on a deeper level, I think this goes back to my expectations of people, which goes back to my parents, who essentially "forgot" about my existence from age 7 till age 24 -- so, sending me to boarding school till I received my graduate degree, I then started making a concerted effort to visit them. When my PhD thesis was accepted in 2011, nobody was present at the meeting except for me, which reaffirmed the abandonment and brought back the memories from my youth.

How would you be different if you knew the people that care about you would never leave you?

As I wrote above, they did leave me, rather they forced me to leave them. So I cannot say what would be different aboiut myself, were I to have had a more normal family setup.

yGTWgtNrco · 2016-02-01T23:07:13+00:00

Breaking Free Activity #10

Make a list of positive affirmations about yourself.

/u/yGTWgtNrco never settles
/u/yGTWgtNrco never surrenders
/u/yGTWgtNrco perseveres no matter what obstacle is shown
/u/yGTWgtNrco is the best at his game
There is nothing that /u/yGTWgtNrco cannot do
/u/yGTWgtNrco can out-smarts them all regularly

Title	Started reading No More Mr. Nice Guy, looking for a confidant / mentor.
Author	GoingTheHardWay
Upvotes	11
Comments	12
Date	January 19, 2016 10:27 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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