Still in an anger phase?

kruxofthemimed · 2017-06-19T19:21:57+00:00

You're a bitter faggot. Stop letting other people's choices have such a large impact on you, it's absolutely ridiculous and childish. The only reason you would have any issue with girls showing off their bodies on instagram is because you are angry that they are wanting attention from a source that isn't you. Would you be upset if these girls were sending sexy pictures strictly to you? Of course not. Get over yourself man, your ego is huuugely out of control

claptilley · 2017-06-19T20:10:31+00:00

Think of it. It's perception. In a plugged in matrix, blue pill defined world...these women are whores. Letting go of an ego investment is hard work. Some days it feels impossible. It is great you deleted social media. It's a distraction anyway. The shit whores do isn't going anywhere. If you read rollo' s work, you'll see him referencing a society that's gradually celebrating open hypergamy. So being pissed and hating them will get old fast. Being bitter stops personal growth. At the end of the day, that's the core function for each of us. To work on ourselves.

Hypergamy is a subconscious level concept. It's AWALT. If you're very passionate on how you feel, maybe consider a MGTOW lifestyle. Nothing wrong with that. It's your life. Set your own girls.

There are some very negative outcomes for attention whores. They're dealing with an impossibly inflated self worth and just like the real estate market. It will crash. The wall will hit them. It'll sort itself out. Spend your time on your value. That's all you can control.

As for your friends. I suggest amused mastery. You can suggest shit to ego invested plugged in bros to listen. It won't work. Things wont get better until they actually want them to. Most don't. Or they must face a really dark event that crushes them to see another way. No one listens to me. That's them. It's a big enough struggle to work on me. So I put my resources there. Good luck. AWALT can cause anger. Dont let it. Focus on you.

dontbedenied · 2017-06-19T21:35:50+00:00

And I don't mean the women who has morals and self respect and then act like whores when they're in the sheets.

These are the women I still have anger for. My ex was a self proclaimed "feminist" who would rant non-stop against "misogyny". She even said women shouldn't jokingly call each other "whores" because it's degrading. Yet she was (privately) unapologetic about fucking a married guy for a year and loved being called a worthless whore when I fucked her (she suggested it).

I don't want to hold onto this anger. I want to move on and accept that women are pragmatic fuck animals who are one way in public and another way in private due to societal expectations. But man, sometimes this shit drives me crazy. Any tips on how you got over this?

Eating-mushrooms · 2017-06-19T21:46:38+00:00

Jesus dude, you're like a spoiled little kid throwing a temper tantrum out of jealousy. I'm guessing you're still young. Focus on yourself and what you like, you need to ignore people. Why the hell do you care so much? You're letting them control you.

max_peenor · 2017-06-19T22:08:55+00:00

I also have trouble dealing with people not taking my advice or seeing things my way.

I had a problem with this when I was younger. I assumed when people didn't do what I said, it was because they were deliberately fucking with me. With the help of someone wiser than me I realized that most of the time this was not the case, but rather people were either too stupid or too scared to act on it.

SirAttackHelicopter · 2017-06-19T22:54:10+00:00

Focusing on the angry emotions is gonna destroy you from the inside, and you'll cripple yourself before you realize you need help. You wanna know how to beat them? Be a success. Kick ass and be the envy of them all. THAT is alpha.

username_1_1_1 · 2017-06-20T00:54:57+00:00

I hear ya, man. I've dated a few of IG model/whores and I have no taste for them anymore. It's not the attention seeking or the complete lack of morality that I find off-putting, as much as it is the duality of the women themselves. It's shocking how easily they can switch from the sweet, loving girlfriend, to the trashy whore persona. You start to wonder which is the act and which is the true personality (Pro-tip: a whore is a whore is a whore. Don't be fooled).

But why get angry about that? Whores are nothing new on this planet. They're not going anywhere either. What part of that surprises you? Let them be whores. Spend your time looking for a decent girl.

As for your boys... I don't know if you've noticed, but people rarely take advice about anything from anyone. Most people are content to hit their heads against the wall over and over and never really change. If I were you I'd keep your red pill philosophies to yourself unless someone really wants to know. Save your advice for the worthy.

9game · 2017-06-20T09:24:24+00:00

Your angrer is a auto program which is executed in your brain at the moment as you see the trigger (a photo). Next time say to yourself "Ok this is just chemical reaction in my head", such meta thinking (thinking about thoughts) I find as a good first step to reprogramming yourself.

So far your anger is in subconcious mind (you feel it your body auto react to it) , we want to move it to concious (logical) so you can work on it. (Check out Cognitive Behavioral Therapy tools.)

You will still feel the anger, but you be aware of it that you feel it (it will slow down the reaction between trigger and physical feeling the anger) so within short time you start to try to control/ignore your reaction. (it would happend automaticaly)

Good luck

Title	Still in an anger phase?
Author	Bulk_king11
Upvotes	11
Comments	15
Date	June 19, 2017 6:01 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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