Struggling to get laid

Radinax · 2018-12-17T00:53:21+00:00

Girls are more attracted to your behaviour towards them than anything else, imagine if you were inside the body of Tom Cruise with all his money, looks and face, would you be afraid of talking to a generic cute girl with cute ass when there are many of them killing to have you but play hard to get because they don't want to seem desperate?

Lifting, focusing on yourself, being rich, its all means to get your confidence up and that's what really ends up attracting women, you don't have to do much besides just talking normally setup all the logistics and invite them to a nice time.

Its why guys without money and/or ugly asf but confident as hell ends up in bed with girls with beta providers, the later is afraid of losing the girl so they do anything for them, they end up being repulsive because they want that masculine energy in their life.

The first guy starts teasing them giving them that look, start being a bit flirty, pushing and pulling her into a nice zone where only the of them exists, he then invite her for a walk in a park which ends up with her in his bed.

That guy isn't forcing anything, he's just a man.

That's all what TRP is all about. If you're not confident then lift, fix your style, clean haircut, whatever you feel wrong with you fix it, if that's not enough then go to therapy or something.

You feel you're not enough right now, but believe me you alredy are more than enough, you need to start being more confident in yourself, just act until you make it yours if needed, that doesn't mean being a douche, but acting like you own the world and its your to do whatever you want to do.

chazthundergut · 2018-12-17T02:28:46+00:00

Reading TRP every day will not get you laid.

Going out and approaching a dozen women every day will get you laid.

cjy2018 · 2018-12-17T01:00:54+00:00

2 dates out of 30 matches on tinder is not bad at all. Keep in mind Tinder is not conducive to serious dating/meeting up. Most of the girls on there are seeking attention and only meet up with a guy occasionally.

Compare it to walking up to 30 strangers and saying whatever you used as your opening line to start talking to them. Now imagine you said that same line but with 0 emotion/expression. How many girls would actually talk to you let alone sleep with you?

Point = Don't take Tinder personal.

What part of Canada are you in? the GTA? Toronto? if so this is part of the problem.... the GTA is not great for dating/hooking up in your teens and early 20s. The women expect much higher SMV. At 19 play the field at your post-secondary institution. If you're not in one get your smart serve and spend a summer working at a restaurant. Pick a bar/pub you'll gain a heap of social skills and be exposed to a tonne of hostesses and waitresses.

If that is not your scene be a camp councilor for a summer. Once again you'll pick up social skills and get exposure to many girls your age. You'll gain confidence from being a leader and have lots of opportunity to practice one-on-one connection.

AlfredKinsey · 2018-12-17T01:45:13+00:00

Have you been escalating. I'm a cynical manlet and I started getting laid more (dated plenty) just making moves more often. Basically, don't be a pussy, kino hard, and go for the f-close first meet.

fds_1 · 2018-12-17T04:40:13+00:00

R E A D. T H E. R A T I O N A L. M A L E. Also, get off Tinder. It's a rejection buffer.

ramfex21 · 2018-12-17T01:52:33+00:00

Develop a high level of self-confidence! Trumps money any day. Focus of the presence that you as a man are bringing to ever single interaction. Are you smiling, head held high, eyes wide open. I’ve been focusing on improving the presence of my eyes lately and it makes me feel really confident. You don’t need to stare at people creepily, but just try and have a penetrative gaze. Attempt to make conversation everywhere you go. It doesn’t matter if it’s with an old grandma or a hot girl. Get on the habit of talking and making your presence known. The books you read, you actually have to apply to see results. Unfortunately we cannot download the correct actions into our brain, we need to practice and improve them. You can know all the TRP and PUA knowledge, but if you don’t act on that knowledge, nothing is ever going to happen. - it’s taken me a while to learn this.

AlfredKinsey · 2018-12-17T03:48:48+00:00

Also, go meet women in the real world. Tinder is fucking stupid.

Kenny_Twenty · 2018-12-17T03:56:36+00:00

Don't be in a hurry to judge your ability to get sex out of women yet. You're too young to be hard on yourself about that. You have plenty of potential to become completely different. It may not feel that way but you can change quickly and drastically at your age. Consider this:you aren't even finished growing.

Steady as she goes, lad.

red_matrix · 2018-12-17T04:50:47+00:00

Read the The Book of Pook, all your answers are there.

UpperRedSide · 2018-12-17T06:28:04+00:00

I'm gonna come from an angle that most people on TRP and affiliated subreddits look disparagingly on. As much as people love to hate what I'm about to say, truth is truth regardless of how one feels about it.

Look better. There. I fucking said it. Girls are attracted to attractive men, and will go to startling lengths to facilitate sleeping with them. I swear to god, and I can't make this shit up, as a model tier man, I have had girls throw themselves at me in ways that would legitimately alarm you. I've had female strangers (who were neither ugly nor lacking in options) contact me online after seeing pictures of me asking me to date them, exchange nudes, or straight up meet them for sex. As long as you aren't viciously emotionally abusive or don't have an IQ of literally 0, it matters little what you say.

Being physically attractive as a man can be reduced to a science. Simpler still, a formula.

Jawline, eyebrows, chin, eyes, nose, body, hair.

Jawline: you can get permanently for about $1k.

Chin: this will probably be included with the jawline implant and you're already 75 percent model tier.

Eyebrows: should be dark, neat, and not far above the eyes, can be grown in using castor oil if weak, or simply trimmed if already thick.

Eyes: the color doesn't really matter, but it's mainly the eyelids, which should be narrowed to form a sort of eagle eye smolder.

Nose: also doesn't matter that much, but narrowness from the front, and forwardness with a degree of upturning from the side is ideal. Rhinoplasties cost next to nothing for the value.

Body: should be lean and muscular, but mostly lean and doesn't have to be that big. Can be achieved by lifting, eating well, lots of water, and intense weekly cardio.

Hair: if balding, and all the above are checked, go bald. You'll still look awesome. Or get rogain. Either way, go for a modern, clean looking style.

This should all run you at about 5k. For the price of a low tier car, you are now a male model to end all male models. Have fun.

Here's the thing. Having good game is excellent for getting a girl and keeping her. But let's be real here, OP is trying to get laid. If you're hot, it's incredibly easy. You wanna know what girls on Tinder are on Tinder for? You may think it's for attention, because they rarely hit you back, but that's not it. They are on Tinder to fuck their Christian Grey/Prince Charming/Edward Cullen They are looking for the hottest guys on the app, which are rare, and when they find them, they do the absolute most to get those guys in bed. How do I know this? Because I've been that guy in a Tinder girl's story many a time.

I'm not saying that looks are literally EVERYTHING, full stop. No I'm saying that game has it's place, but in the context of casual sex, looks are the most important. I'm not blackpilled or incel. Just saying that if you want women to have sex with you, just sex, looking good is the best way to go. If you're hot enough, women will reduce you to a literally piece of meat, yep, just like guys do them.

As-You-Were · 2018-12-17T10:11:18+00:00

I watched one of Roosh V’s videos recently about Canada. Apparently you guys have a hard time of it with the amount of leftists and feminism plaguing the place.

Still, be attractive (lift), work on your game, be busy (work, studying, etc) = unbeatable formula.

Nothing dries up a women quicker than a desperate and available guy.

Lambdal7 · 2018-12-17T10:15:03+00:00

You need to up the volume a lot.

Approach 300 hot girls over the next 3 months, get 80 numbers, 20 dates and 6 times sex and 3 that are compatible long term.

These are th enumbers you need to work. Everything below that will not give you interesting girlfriends and you always need to compromise on a lot.

slaterhuckle · 2018-12-17T06:01:34+00:00

Approach 3-5 new women every day. Do this in person not online. Have a good appearance. If after you get 10 phone numbers and none of them end up wanting to hang out than work on your appearance.

[deleted] · 2018-12-17T06:42:13+00:00

You approach 10 women, you will only be able to grab the number of 5, 3 will reply back, 2 will agree with to go on a date with you, one will flake/cancel, and you’ll be left with one. That’s how it usually goes.

mraxelrodi · 2018-12-17T08:51:51+00:00

Nobody wrote that yet, but also look at SMV graph. Otherwise, just trying and learning at this young age you are doing great.

cornylamygilbert · 2018-12-18T01:30:40+00:00

man

you need way more going on first off

projects, multiple goals, hobbies, side hustles

you need social opportunities that are focused on getting you more money / a better career / anything tangible and you'll run into women

you are way too focused on women and that's the issue. Everyone can smell it on ya.

a giant red flag in your post is caring so much about tinder matches. Tinder is like the parsley to your main dish of meeting women irl through social events, fitness, etc

You're only 19.

Great that you're starting early. Have some fun too. Caring too much about how many women you're meeting has the opposite effect.

Find something fun and pursue it now

Kurush559 · 2018-12-18T10:44:50+00:00

You dont lift (enough)

masterbaterchief · 2018-12-17T04:49:11+00:00

Dude, just whip it out.

Title	Struggling to get laid
Author	MG4L
Upvotes	55
Comments	48
Date	December 17, 2018 12:29 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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