Suspicious about LTR

1NV0K3R · 2017-09-15T13:32:05+00:00

Here's what you do.

Stop being a beta. Dress better than you currently do. Talk to girls.

This is called "applying dread". Which she is apparently a master of cause your blue bill brain is shitting itself just because she wore a red dress.

TL;DR it doesn't fucking matter, read the side bar, stop your oneitis, raise your smv, and get good.

Dmva100 · 2017-09-15T13:58:35+00:00

It is likely she is ovulating and looking for an opportunity. Do you have plans with her right after work? If you don't, I wouldn't be surprised if someone else does. Either that or she just hasn't been approached yet.

Don't contact her at all today and see how long it takes for her to hit you up, if it all, for sexy time tonight.

Retspihi · 2017-09-15T13:14:50+00:00

Check her phone.

TheDreadnought1 · 2017-09-15T13:02:45+00:00

Dude, I can smell your insecurity from my cellphone screen probably like 10k miles away from you.

There's something you have to understand: women CRAVE for men's attention. Some of them are more explicit and more needy of it, some are more contained, but ALL of them want attention, the more they get the best, and this doesn't matter if she's in a relationship or not.

You're just dreaming if you think you'll find a girl that will despise all male attention in her life just because she's in a relationship with you, even if you were fucking Brad Pitt or Chris Evans, this is just unreal.

Of course that doesn't mean that you should accept and tolerate slutty behavior, and if your girl is dressing too provocatively and you feel that it isn't for you, than it is for someone else and that's a serious red flag. But keep that in mind, girls love male attention and there isn't any relationship that will kill or fill that need, and if you try to it will 100% backfire and you'll be seen as a controlling insecure beta.

sherlokt2 · 2017-09-15T14:57:50+00:00

just buy her some flowers

u are already the beta from the sole fact ur in a ltr. giving ur time energy and attention to this ONE girl being in a ltr while she bangs chads in ons so i don't know what else to tell u lol

mrHappyPotatoe · 2017-09-15T15:03:42+00:00

Get rid of your ego. Otherwise you gonna pay the painful price.

Kommanderdude · 2017-09-15T15:27:36+00:00

You're insecure. Fix it. If that's too hard then I recommend self termination.

TxnyMontana · 2017-09-15T16:36:49+00:00

Men, don't get paranoid and quit that beta/obsessive thoughts from your mind, you will have a shit time with this girl, the next one and the next one if you continue like this, even if you look like Arnold when he won mr Olympia.

It's just a dress. Be aware (always) from other flags. Not this one. Not a big deal

tolizeedore · 2017-09-15T15:38:13+00:00

You sound really paranoid and serial killer crazy (sorry but you do). Women who paint their nails, wear lipstick and red dresses are prostitutes looking to have sex with every man they meet? Wtf?

If you want someone that no other man is going to look at and who hides from other men in their appearance, date a six hundred pounder who doesn't leave the house or someone who has let themselves go to the point where they wear their pj's in public and never wash. No man will look in their direction with lust and their focus is definitely to ensure they don't.

Your girlfriend is going to work in a red dress and you're freaking out assuming she's up to something. You need serious therapy. This is not normal. Most men like their women to look attractive and make the effort so they're proud to be seen with them.

Your problem here is an incredibly deep insecurity and paranoia which is fuelling deeply hateful attitudes towards someone that you're supposed to care about.

Attractive men who women want to stay with are confident (maybe a bit cocky), smart, funny, secure and love women (even if a bit too flirty and manwhoreish but...a man like that will get away with anything), that's why they're popular. You sound like a terrified little boy who's acting out.

Il128 · 2017-09-15T14:45:06+00:00

It's as simple as this.

An insecure dude will constantly mate guard and do all kinds of paranoid shit like check her phone, stalk her, search through her shit, on and fucking on.

What's really sad is, if the dude finds anything, like she's been pulling trains at the local bar or whoring herself on Craigslist, it wouldn't make one fucking difference. He won't walk or ghost. At most he'll whine and cry and she'll ignore his shit and maybe she'll leave him but he certainly isn't going anywhere.

Point is, if you're an insecure fuck, stalking her won't change a fucking thing. You wouldn't leave anyway.

A RP man doesn't do this shit. You got doubts? You plate, you find other bitches to fuck, you ghost... What you don't do is stalk and be a whiney little bitch.

brinkleybuzz · 2017-09-15T14:34:03+00:00

now she's going to work with a red dress

Is she ovulating? Women dress more provocatively and act sexier when they're in heat. If she's not on the pill, learn how to track her cycles. She'll naturally want the D more when she's ovulating. Whether or not she wants it from you or if she's dressing sexier to attract other guys when she's ovulating will give you insight into how attracted she is to you.

Title	Suspicious about LTR
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Date	September 15, 2017 12:52 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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