Taking a subs virginity

blokia_ · 2019-12-27T23:38:29+00:00

She thinks she want's to do that, she probably has heard all these things from friends/50 shades/internet/whatever and thinks it is the normal way to please guys. She is probably scared to death about it, but is even more scared about staying a virgin at 30 and having two cats.

Tell her you won't do things like that to her, at least not the first few times you have sex with her. Explain her why, explain her that that kind of stuff requires lots of trust (that she probably doesn't, at least shouldn't, have if she's honest) and that the both of you can enjoy vanilla sex. Tell her that being forced to swallow is not really practicing save sex. Choking someone is not something you should take lightly and it can even make her afraid of sex if she takes it badly.

After quite a few times of vanilla sex, if she still want's to explore bdsm more, fine. If she doesn't, also fine. Don't do this stuff with a virgin, let her discover sex the gentle way.

PurpleSweetz · 2019-12-27T20:52:02+00:00

If she’s into all that she’s no fucking virgin lmao

Greaterbird · 2019-12-27T22:40:49+00:00

She'll probably flake. Subs fantasize about all sorts of shit when they're horny and once they get off they shut off the phone and go back to watching TV.

daheffalump · 2019-12-27T23:33:04+00:00

Go slow and possibly isolate activities(only bj/swallow, light spanking/flogging)

Take a couple weeks to get her screaming horny. Remember that everything is supposed to let her explore fantasies with you. Safewords, check-ins, and aftercare. Do not break her, teach her. Just like a national park, use her, love her, and leave her better than when you arrived.

Title	Taking a subs virginity
Author	LegendaryMe1
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	December 27, 2019 8:50 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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