Teetering

Aaren_Augustine · 2018-01-30T12:18:31+00:00

No. You are basically retroactively cucked. Dad might make you actively cucked when you fuck all this shit up and she's got to cry on a shoulder, like the one that got away because she completely botched it with Dad.

Dude. Might as well ask if laying on a grenade will be detrimental to your health.

Grow a pair of balls and tell her you won't be moving in. Her reaction will tell you all you need to know about the beta bob she was going to make you play.

TheStumblingWolf · 2018-01-30T12:33:35+00:00

I did something similar once. I bouht a house with my ex and her mom and brother. I was young and back then I couldn't even tell you what I felt like doing 5 min. later yet I felt that this was not something I wanted. I said yes anyway because I felt it was the right thing to do. My decision gave me 10 years of a life I'd chosen but that I didn't want.

So my question is this: do you want to do this? Somewhere in your brain there must be a voice saying this is a bad idea. You obviously have doubts, so examine why you have them.

My advice would be to not submit to a situation where you lose control over your life and needs. A woman and 3 teenage daughters would certainly seem like something that could take away control.

Figure out if you actually want to, and deal with it according to that. That's the first and only need you have to consider. Everything else is secondary.

360_no_scope_upvote · 2018-01-30T13:33:11+00:00

There is no duty, you are not the Father, there is no sacred blood pact that says you must be Billy beta for a half used up whore. You are desperate, you feel like this is the best you can do, and you're enabling that behavior.

If you do this you will regret it, everyday you wake up something will feel wrong, like a growth that that doesn't belong. You'll feel more and more empty until you become a shell of what you once were. All because you didn't put yourself first.

Dump her, move on, start lifting, start going out, start talking to women with no kids. -- this is the only solution.

Terdmuffin · 2018-01-30T15:33:30+00:00

You're being called to step up and do your duty? What exactly is your duty? What do you owe?

DadOnDabs · 2018-01-30T14:03:04+00:00

Lmao 3 teenage daughters. Leave

pm_me_chuck_hagel · 2018-01-30T14:03:36+00:00

Is there any way this can turn out well?

No. Run while you can.

WunderLedger · 2018-05-03T08:17:34+00:00

Thank you for your comments. A lot of them resonated. I have lost my frame and can’t see a life without her. The prospect of not just breaking up with her but also of telling her daughters occupies most of my waking thoughts. We had a great thing going but she seems to spend an increasing amount of time browsing property porn and my goose is beginning to feel the heat.

asapzombie · 2018-01-30T15:01:07+00:00

This is nothing good. HARD NEXT

FlyingSexistPig · 2018-01-30T14:05:00+00:00

How the girl I was fucking and my three kids? Thanks for paying their bills for me. I might be back in a couple years to jump in where I left off. But I'm sure that'll be fine with you.

Title	Teetering
Author	WunderLedger
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	January 30, 2018 11:54 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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