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[–]huskerbolt12 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You are falling into her frame .... try flipping it. Once she asks you a question wait a good amount of time ( double this in your head) before you respond, you need to teach her that your time is more valuable than hers. Also .... stop the endless texts (who cares if she is going to college today ... you asked that twice that you admitted and it sounds seriously needy) , meet up or next her.
[–]SkimSTi 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OP, listen to this stuff.
its easy to fall into the trap of trying to win them over by 'conversation'. but a lot of dudes are in that mindset. be different. escalate and go for what you want. she will notice. and if shes even a little interested, she will take you up on it.
[–]SkimSTi 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
you have friendzoned yourself and are now her text/chat buddy. good job. you are probably 1 of 20 dudes that just had her attention for the time being. she probably stopped because she started getting more attention from a dude that she is more interested in. so essentially, she talks to you when she has nothing else going on.
.... stop chatting up this girl over text. if she reaches out to you and initiates, assume she wants to see you, quickly escalate the convo to asking her out. if she ignores your question, soft next for a week, then ask one more time. if she ignores again you cut all ties. any girl that would be interested in you would not only a) want to talk to you and b) want to see you.
[–]RedKekistani0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That's the problem, she constantly initiates. That's the entire point of why I don't understand it.
[–]SkimSTi 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
you arent escalating to ask her out quickly enough. so shes probably getting bored. either shes interested and waiting for you to man up and ask her out. or shes just using you as a text friend and has no intent on anything going anywhere.
only way to find out is to escalate and get out of that friendzone. be willing to walk away.
[–]1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you arent escalating to ask her out quickly enough
This ^ Op needs to make the move.
[–]Endorsed Contributormallardcove1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why are you texting outside of logistics?
[–]E_Rico7001 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't text her with trivial conversations, you will only make her bored of you.
Also asking if she is coming to class sounds needy. Sounds like you're just waiting for her to show up.
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[–]quicklogaccount0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
These are bad questions, she probably doesn't want to answer them and finds something better to entertain herself.
If those are six instances in which your conversation was interrupted by her and the conversation is still running like that, it's time to change your approach. I'd give it some time and come out far more aggressive later, either sexting or looking into setting a date.
[–]Buttslam1488 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Ghost this stupid bitch
[–]RedKekistani0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Will definitely do. Not responding to her text atm, will just wait for a week or two until we meet up again for college stuff and then just normally talk to her
[–]Buttslam1488 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ignore her even IRL
[–]RedKekistani0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
that'd be weird
[–]Buttslam1488 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fart in her face and just walk away smirking.
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