texting first... maybe i’m overthinking

The_Outlier1612 · 2020-07-24T22:09:14+00:00

I personally don't think so, women like when you take initiative. Just don't text her all day and shit like one of her girlfriends, make the plans and execute. You are over thinking.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-07-25T00:17:52+00:00

No. It's masculine to take the lead.

RPU_mike · 2020-07-24T23:16:19+00:00

Nothing wrong with taking initiative.

sans10__ · 2020-07-24T23:11:15+00:00

Unless you’re hyper attractive or for whatever reason the bitch is super high interest, 99% of the time they dont text first

DBthoughts · 2020-07-25T10:42:05+00:00

I would say as long as you are not the one always initiating its cool, meaning if sometimes they initiate and sometimes you thats fine - however if you realise that you're the one always having to initiate I may pull back until they initiate (always a risk doing this however if she has solid interest she will initiate - however you should have the mindset of 'on to the next'), I hope this helps

custoscustodis · 2020-07-24T22:22:25+00:00

If I get a woman's number, I'll always text first, 2 days later.

From that point on, I let her do the initiating to gauge her interest.

Snoo_43787 · 2020-07-25T13:29:13+00:00

I was dating a shy girl and always had to initiate. Depends on the girl tbh

thestructuralguy · 2020-07-26T12:53:15+00:00

You're overthinking. If they want to fuck you they won't care if you text first man. This is just pathetic. Stop caring so much. Your level of emotional investment sounds higher than those girls. Eventually it will start to show in your behaviour. I've been guilty of this too that's why I regularly practice monk mode whenever I get too emotionally invested. I let all my plates break coz my mental health is more important than these dumbass hoes. When I feel myself getting my sanity back I hit them up again if they reciprocate, great, means I get to fuck, if not who cares, there's more where they come from.

Title	texting first... maybe i’m overthinking
Author	tsunam2020
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	July 24, 2020 10:05 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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