Dating a 22 y/o at the moment. We had one date every week.

• 1st: Some drinks at the beach;

• 2nd: Minigolf, movie at my house and sex;

• 3rd: Watching a movie at the cinema and some drinks.

I enjoyed the dates and she did too, I escalated as well. In between we didn't text a lot. Since I replied after 3/4 hours (I was busy). I got the impression that she's mimicking me; taking an ever increasing time to reply.

Yesterday I texted her that I'm in town today and we should hang out. She replied: I've got school until late, but it might be possible that I can leave earlier :). To which I replied: cool, let me know. Fast forward she hasn't replied yet in over 8 fucking hours. Honestly, I'm frustrated and sick of this texting mind game she plays; just tell me you can't go.

When she replies, I expect her to reply me that she won't make it. I want to reply in one of the two ways.

• Act cool, tell her I made other plans already and next her.

• Call her out on her bullshit.

What's the most sensible thing to do?