Theory Clarification: Soft Next

redhawkes · 2020-08-19T17:11:55+00:00

Everything you need to know about soft nexts

Sylvester_Sterone · 2020-08-19T17:44:38+00:00

It means no contact... 48 to 72 hours give or take. NO CONTACT. Ignore the flood of texts and do your own thing.

Resume contact whenever you feel like it. Don't mention anything about ignore and certainly DONT give an ultimatum "If you do this I will"

slrml617 · 2020-08-19T16:46:45+00:00

This is not a step by step playbook, it's a guideline.

Softnext in general means you're open to the possibility of future contact.

To what extent is yours to decide.

IXseed · 2020-08-19T16:54:56+00:00

No contact until the behaviour the caused the next is corrected or after a set amount of time (a few weeks).

Using in a relationship depends on the situation.

boy_named_su · 2020-08-19T17:47:46+00:00

you decide how long the soft-next will be
you do not contact her for that period, no matter what

reduxDev · 2020-08-19T17:49:53+00:00

No, you don't soft next an LTR. Whats the point of being in an LTR then?

Soft next is divert your interest else wear. If you run 3 youtube channels, all with 10k subscribers, and they usually do pretty well. If your recent uploads to one channel get less interest and perform worse for whatever reason, thats a problem. If it was your only youtube channel, you would but a ton of time and effort thinking about the problem and trying to fix it. But that doesn't always help, sometimes just letting things sit and solve themselves is what needs to happen, especially relating to women. But if your only youtube channel, it's your only option, you HAVE to get thatworking or you won't have anymoney.

But since you have 3 youtube channels, just go work on the other ones? Why waste your time putting effort into something that yields poor results when you could make videos for the other 2 channels that are doing well.

You're soft nexting the channel.

That being said, it's not always 100% good to soft next, and witholding investment isn't always the best move.

For an LTR, you can back off by icing. Idk if theres a redpill term for "putting something on ice", but it's literally just letting the situation cool off. Women almost all the time need to just cool off. You can't go fuck other girls while ur in an LTR, so just leave her alone until she stops being a bitch.

Women have this behavior built in. If i get in a fight with my LTR and then i bring that fight up again, randomly, on a wednesday, at 2pm, texting her while i'm at work. Guess what? Left on read 100% of the time unless shes more mad about it than I am. If she does the same, treat her the same. If she's doing something that causes a problem, stop focusing on it, and anytime it comes up again respond with an "oh this shit again" attitude and react to it as little as possible.

Do not ghost your LTR you fucking moron. Always accept good behavior. If she does something you like and you ignore it because your trying to be red pill shes just going to assume you don't like it anymore and stop doing it/break up.

Title	Theory Clarification: Soft Next
Author	goingredwithabang
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	August 19, 2020 4:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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