Things every guy should have done/achieved by age 35?

Ed4all15 · 2020-07-04T23:57:46+00:00

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harmonicpinch · 2020-07-04T23:54:31+00:00

A little over halfway to 50 kills and already 99th percentile fitness at 25. Bottom of my career field (infantry grunt in the military).

This is a fair challenge but the lay count should be subjective. If you're in your 30's when you've discovered TRP don't expect to meet this number. If you're 20 when you discover TRP you should be aiming for triple digits by that time.

CrystalPillCreature · 2020-07-04T23:44:07+00:00

accepted Jesus, forgiven your father’s failures, become conservative, traumatized 99 alpha widows

2020-07-05T11:34:27+00:00

If you count your lays you are still immature imo

amwfhunter · 2020-07-05T01:58:28+00:00

I believe that is specific to the individual. I agree with your benchmarks except for the notch count. I think that is a quality vs quantity thing , although I'd have to say my lay count is up there. Jack Ma said it best. If you're still poor at 35, it is your own fault.

Definitely fitness and the money part is important. Having those things you have freedom and health to do whatever the fuck you want. Credit card debt is something you never want period. Not related to age. I use an American Express since you have to pay off the balance by end of the month and it offers many privileges and perks such as airport lounge, travel credits, private shopping arrangements, free gym membership, upgraded status for airlines and car rentals etc. Their point system is excellent as well for value. I get free international first class tickets annually.. A VISA for when they dont take AMEX again all for the sole purpose of collecting points, perks and rewards. Else CC is useless.

infamous3238 · 2020-07-05T04:29:24+00:00

Zero debt and at least enough money in the bank to cover a year’s worth of expenses, mortgage on house/apartment on its way to being paid off
Climbed the ranks in your field/company so you are mid/upper level, managing several below you
Slept with enough women that the number is no longer important and ONS are no longer that enjoyable
Solid group of real friends who would help you out when in need
Sub-12% bodyfat (visible abs) with a good amount of muscle

telploit25 · 2020-07-05T08:23:20+00:00

50 lays?? Are you guys having sex for enjoyment or trying to fill out a checklist and catch an STD in the process?

The real answer is to:

-work out your mental weaknesses (insecurities, fears, self esteem issues, validation seeking (this includes trying to sleep with 50 women to prove a point) laziness, procrastinations, addictions etc)

-find your passion. Whether you choose to make a career, project or business out of this is up to you but have one. It will do wonders for getting you out of bed and have you looking forward to each new day.

-some genuine relationships and friends who will look out for you.

-travel.Self explanatory.

thatbadrogue2 · 2020-07-05T05:57:22+00:00

your vehicle can probably be counted more as a continual debt. You won't own your car for very long before you trade up. It's just part of the motivated mentality to want bigger and better.

The lay count is irrelevant. Most of your body counts will fuck like tranquilized mattresses. I'd rather have 5 good fucks than 100 bad ones.

Career field is entirely dependent on opportunities that present themselves to you through the fruits of your labor and can't be depended on.

Real goals instead of "99% physical fitness level" why not just aspire to be able to complete the Airhawk requirements at any given time? Bench 225 for 10, deadlift 405 for 1-5 and squat 315 for 5-10 as legitimate goals? Giving yourself an excuse to slack off as you get older (when TRT becomes more readily available) is shortchanging yourself.

I'd rather aspire to be mentally healthy with no droppable baggage, my drawers containing socks of all the same color and my own mortgage. You're over thinking your life, you're just here for a split moment in time- don't worry so much. If you're spending your life continually investing in yourself and your passions/direction you'll reap benefits naturally.

Title	Things every guy should have done/achieved by age 35?
Author	iamtheamaznazn
Upvotes	7
Comments	23
Date	July 4, 2020 10:38 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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