Thinking about breaking up with gf

BinglesTRP · 2015-07-17T14:28:15+00:00

You sound like you still crave validation. From her, from us, from everyone.

How do YOU feel about the relationship? Is it of benefit to you? (It sounds like it is).

That's all that matters. If she doesn't like it, she'll leave, and you'll move on.

red_suppo · 2015-07-17T14:48:09+00:00

What made you feel beta was asking the question, not her answer.

dreckmal · 2015-07-17T14:12:31+00:00

Thoughts?

Seriously? Quit asking dumb fucking questions you don't really want the answer to.

What was the point of asking that? Were you trying to stroke your own ego? Or are you a masochist?

balhere · 2015-07-17T14:18:27+00:00

I don't think you should even ask her something like that in the first place. It makes you sound like you aren't confident in yourself. She can't change the way she feels towards you, the only person who can change that is you.

redpill-visceral · 2015-07-17T14:42:10+00:00

Never ask her opinion about you or the relationship. This is an auto shit test to you and you'll fail. Pay attention on the behaviours, not words. Do not compete with the past, you can't compete with good memories, you must create new ones with her. If you know she is an alpha widow, let it go no matter what.

Glacia · 2015-07-17T14:53:51+00:00

That's the most stupid reason for a break up I've ever heard.

WolfenSatyr · 2015-07-17T15:02:09+00:00

You missed the memo about asking questions.

Don't ask questions. The preferred way of determining relationship security is by saying "This is your best relationship." Then you watch her physical reaction. Anything other than an affectionate reaction means you're not her best.

Sad thing is, you most likely were her best until those words fell out of your mouth.

"You are one of the people I've loved the most" = "I wonder if I can pull Chad off that Serbian gymnast tonight"

1NV0K3R · 2015-07-17T15:28:04+00:00

Next, you should ask her how many dicks she's taken.

Followed by pointing out random dudes on the street and asking if she would fuck them.

Finally, you should actively go up to those men and ask them to fuck your girlfriend.

CuntyMcFagNuts69 · 2015-07-17T15:34:29+00:00

What the fuck dude? You don't even understand red pill at all. She's probably had better cock in her than you. But you shouldn't care, never listen to what a woman says about you, watch her actions. If you're the best cock she has, she will show you.

Stop giving a fuck and start living for you.

a_broken_zat · 2015-07-17T14:38:34+00:00

IMO, if you're asking other people the question, you've already made the decision in your mind and are looking for others to agree and encourage you or disagree and discourage you.

Authority8 · 2015-07-17T15:09:03+00:00

The fact you asked that shows you have more maturing, growing, alphaing to do. What I am surprised by is that she answered you so honestly. I would have expected her to simply humor you. Anyone know why she basically told him he isn't the best cock she's had?

Is she manipulative, does she ever put you down to intentionally make you feel bad so she can better control you? Does spending time with her make you feel like you aren't good enough for her, thus lucky to have her?

krustytheclown2 · 2015-07-17T15:32:48+00:00

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ghostCanape · 2015-07-17T16:26:52+00:00

Just don't ask questions like that. It's the most insecure thing ever.

Moreover, your insecurities continue to bleed through in your interpretation of her answer. Not only does she put you in her top tier (recalling that she's not yours, it's just your turn), she didn't even say 'men'. Saying 'people' means she probably included her girlfriends in the tally, an attachment frequently much more intense than any romantic relationship.

Quit whining to us and your girl and work on OI and maintaining an internal locus of control.

Liefskaap · 2015-07-17T15:00:32+00:00

She told you she loved you and you feel beta? How? What? When? Why?

Title	Thinking about breaking up with gf
Author	_penseroso_
Upvotes	1
Comments	21
Date	July 17, 2015 2:07 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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