Thinking about pulling back and making her double text or call me. Thoughts?

TheDevilPutD · 2021-04-20T11:09:35+00:00

I just get the sense that you are trying a bit too hard and you are chasing her. Shorten your messages and get them even more to the point. Always frame every interaction as her hitting on you.

-ThePathIsTheGoal- · 2021-04-20T13:33:29+00:00

Just some constructive criticism here, but drop the trendy cool guy lingo with the “say less”, “aye” and “imma” BS.

It’s very cringe and comes off like you’re 15. Get rid of the emojis. Converse like a grown man.

Again, not being a dick for the sake of being a dick. I myself have noticed a drastic difference when I became more stoic and direct.

vandaalen · 2021-04-20T11:24:57+00:00

You again? Stop your pathetic chump behaviour. Your flake rate is so high because you act like a retard and facetiming with them just makes it worse.

rookieMale · 2021-04-20T11:05:25+00:00

She is not really feeling your vibe.... Next her... Until she calls again.

btrpb · 2021-04-20T14:14:35+00:00

This is cringe. Trying to hard and trying to force her into talking to you.

Try again.

btt069 · 2021-04-20T14:54:21+00:00

imma and lemme, i know exactly these two words were super cringey too her and she thought you were trying too hard.

wessyy · 2021-04-20T16:17:06+00:00

Shes not interested

Don_Draper27 · 2021-04-20T13:04:22+00:00

Too invested. Anything online is fishing with a net. If you're doing text gymnastics for a match, you're trying way too hard.

319Skew · 2021-04-20T14:11:22+00:00

I kind of like this. More guys should post transcripts for input.

Hate online game. Not because I don't get results but because the girl you're chatting has dozens of guys doing the same thing as you. So greater flakes the longer you sit on it.

OP - you're chasing someone with very little interest. You are also chasing pretty hard.

One question is why facetime instead of meeting up?

hellionmma · 2021-04-20T15:45:46+00:00

http://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn

onyekaboy27 · 2021-04-20T22:02:17+00:00

First of all, I remember last time I said that there must’ve been something off with your game and this text message shows exactly what it is lol. I was confused at first because you a solid looking guy but I see why. If this is how you talk in real life, let alone text then the shorties finna be dry like saltine crackers. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not hating cuz I know a couple of my friends who do this but I just gotta point out all these things real quick

Too cocky and tryna be too Alpha
1. You didn’t even establish anything yet with the girl before you started talking about your looks. It was almost like you were actually trying to get her to validate your looks (that’s what the girl is supposed to do)
2. I know you probably trying to be confident, but this is a display of coming off as too cocky and too arrogant, that would turn almost anybody off, guy or girl
Too cringe
1. *Self explanatory
You didn’t interest her at all, that was your first impression and it was pretty bad
Not reading in between the lines
1. After she said “ill be the judge of that” you had a small chance to save yourself, but you ruined it with the cockiness and arrogant response

Your chance with this girl is probably over unless she hits you up for some reason. But Yeah dawg you gotta tone it down a lot. Just text normal while charming and smooth, nun of that super cocky and arrogant shit you feel me. Take it as a learning experience, now you know what to do and what not to do.

This is my game plan below It’s nothing much in my opinion, if you have game in real life then texting is easy you just gotta type it

I will text say I don’t have any game plan I just go by everything that I know of the red pill everything I know if my nature in my head and I just type it on the phone, but there are some rules that I like to keep when I’m texting

1) Equality

I text the same amount she’s texting me. if she’s texting me two words I’ll text it two words. If she doesn’t respond, I won’t respond either. If she’s texting me paragraphs I might not always send a paragraph but ima give her a good response. I’m giving back the same energy

2) Text the Same Way You Would Talk in Real Life

to I always talk the way I would talk in real life like if them chilling with a girl in real life I’m talking to her that’s the way

3) The Main Goal of Texting is to Get the Link

That’s literally it. You entertain and get her to want to see you in person (This is why I say text the same way you would talk in person). You also text a little in between to keep communication but nothing ode. There’s really nooooo reason at all to face time unless she has never seen your face. The only time you should be on FaceTime is AFTER to beat the pussy up

aj-tracey · 2021-04-20T22:12:45+00:00

dude dont overthink about just dont put her first

Title	Thinking about pulling back and making her double text or call me. Thoughts?
Author	throwawayletsgooo
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Comments	20
Date	April 20, 2021 10:31 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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