Threatened by Guys...

Filmguy000 · 2019-03-30T08:09:43+00:00

I'm a short guy at 5'5. When I was on my journey to improve, I started with the same approach. Kind of let myself bounce off the walls and approach people to shoot the shit to gain social fitness. This is a good way to accomplish an improvement of social skills.

But don't rely on that for too long. Also chances are that the girls that are grinding on you simply find you amusing and are doing that for shits and giggles on their part. But be careful, don't go overboard and start pissing people off. DO NOT approach women who are with their man. It could force you to end up in a dangerous situation, possibly costing your life. Not to mention that its a dick thing to do. More on that later....

Start approaching and learning proper game once you feel comfortable enough to just talk to strangers. It's much harder for us short dudes, because people tend to look down on us. But it can be done, nevertheless.

And also, when you get to a point that you have a girl with you, this is where the true challenge begins. Because not only will the girl shit test you relentlessly (possibly more due to your height), but the outside world will gladly shit test you as well. If you ever take out an attractive girl out to a social venue (bars/clubs, etc.), there will be dudes who will size you up and attempt to make you look like an idiot in front of your girl. I can't tell you how many times dudes try to "shit test" me in front of my GF. This is where frame and wit are essential.

Good luck.

JosephBosa · 2019-03-30T07:53:02+00:00

Dont hit on girls with boyfriends? "approaching couples"

Store_Front_Door · 2019-03-30T08:00:48+00:00

No need to get your head bashed in over a girl. If a mateguarding idiot steps in between the two of you and says something in between the lines of "she's with me"- de-escalate the situation "My bad, enjoy your night", give her a smile and walk away.

resnine · 2019-03-30T17:17:54+00:00

They think they are better than you. They think "well if this manlet can get them THEN I sure as hell have a shot". It's fucked yes, but it is what it is. Those dudes probably wouldn't have even thought to approach her but once they see you doing it they feel they are a shoe-in and have a higher shot of getting laid due to height/genetics..

Title	Threatened by Guys...
Author	tltsorgtfooo
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	March 30, 2019 7:42 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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