Throw away cards/stuff from ex?

redhawkes · 2020-03-03T18:23:32+00:00

It's called 'anchoring' in NLP. Look it up.

That's why the first thing you do is getting rid of her shit asap.

imahoaxandacoach · 2020-03-03T18:19:33+00:00

If its gonna make you feel free, do it. Sometimes a little "ritual" can help, like deleting the number of a broken plate is freeing. To each their own. But I think its holding you back. Burn that shit.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-03-03T21:03:31+00:00

Here is your problem.

Her is what you need to do.

rugged79 · 2020-03-03T23:13:22+00:00

Keep the noodz and the sextapes.

Then, when you have a collection of noodz from your exes over the years, get drunk, cry and blast some love songs while you whimper in a dark corner like a bitch.

Then say out loud, "I've made as many women cry as there are stars in the sky.

Then use your tears as lube, while you quietly jerk off to the noodz and sextapes.

Seriously, though, good job on burning all that crap. Good luck man.

Thefreeman911 · 2020-03-04T01:14:23+00:00

Remember the good times if you want and than BURN IT ALL

odysseysred · 2020-03-03T19:20:00+00:00

It's only valuable in the context of reflecting on your AFC behaviors and where you have room to improve. Dig through it and make a list of chump behaviors to eliminate and then toss it. You'd miss her less or not at all if you had abundance. Spin more plates.

wheremyballsgo · 2020-03-03T21:09:42+00:00

My parents divorced 19 years ago and my mom moved away. Dad still has her clothes in her dresser in his room. She's not coming back

kkji9920 · 2020-03-03T22:19:48+00:00

Burn them all. Use the fire 🔥 to light your cigar.

Title	Throw away cards/stuff from ex?
Author	kkji9920
Upvotes	6
Comments	28
Date	March 3, 2020 6:14 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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