Time from cold approach to sex

Snowboard18 · 2021-03-19T20:17:33+00:00

Usually it’s 2nd time seeing her ime

But always escalate and try to as soon as you can, but at the same time, don’t seem too eager

IamEins · 2021-03-19T21:46:53+00:00

Everything is possible. Same day lays. Lays on the first, second or third date.

The is no rule. It depends on your game, the attraction and 1000 other variables. At the end of the day it does not matter as long as you are doing what you are supposed to do.

Approach, Attraction, Isolation etc.

Sometimes a girl would like to have sex, but you are approaching her in her lunch break or she has some meeting, so you exchange numbers. Sometimes you dont have the time etc.

MattyAnon · 2021-03-20T00:17:27+00:00

Regarding timeframe how fast do you guys push to sex from the cold approach?

I'm pretty leisurely about it. I like to have multiple FWB so it doesn't make sense to push for fast sex.

2-3 dates, approx 10 hours in her company I guess.

But I filter early for "is she serious" and I physically escalate to find out. I'm pretty good at getting rid of timewasters this way. Not perfect, but good enough.

Everyone seems to be meeting a girl one week and fucking her in the same week.

If you're good you can get a one night stand the same day. Leads to poor girl retention though so I don't bother.

Girls like to wait for third date to soothe her ego. This is why it's a good idea to sneak in an extra quick date (eg meet her for lunch).

Second date is fine, she'll do it if she's horny.

If she wants to see you again, that can make her do her best to avoid sex on a first date.

If you were fucking more women, you'd care less. Equally you don't want to be in the friendzone, so you want to see solid progression with each date (eg touching / kissing / sex). If she puts the brakes on at the same point as previous date, she's a timewaster.

If she halts sex to talk about "us" or "our relationship", she's a provider hunter and you need to set her straight that marriage is not on the table.

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Musicgoon · 2021-03-20T03:04:54+00:00

The rule of thumb is you need to be fucking by the third date.

A month is fucking ridiculous. That means you blew right past your window and are now in the unfuckable category.

Learn from this.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-03-20T05:03:15+00:00

Should be warm approaching, in that case, you can "get it in" within less than an hour...if

1) you're attractive(physically and behaviorally) enough.

2) she's horny(or drunk/high) enough.

Tldr; Night game is Less than an HR, Day game is less than 3 days.

Title	Time from cold approach to sex
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Date	March 19, 2021 8:03 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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