I [23M] met a girl [19F] on Tinder. After a few texts back and forth, I tried to set up a date with her.

Me: What are you doing next Tuesday evening?

Her: I don't believe I have anything planned yet

Me: I'm going salsa dancing, you should come with me

Her: Dancing? Me dancing? No thanks, I like my legs not broken. Plus, I suck at it

Me: Haha you'll be fine. But you don't have to dance if you don't want to. Just come chill

Her: I don't know. We'll see. (I considered that as a no from her and stopped texting)

[About 3 days later, Monday morning]

Me: I'm also down to us grabbing some food tomorrow before I head over

Her: How about just coffee? After my work?

Me: Potentially, what time do you get off?

Her: 4:00

My question is: If I accept this coffee date, is that considered me losing frame and stepping into her frame?