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[–]GIFtoGasm2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Most likely feels embarrassed about using an app to date or fuck. You just change topic and see where it goes. I've bagged a ton off tinder with them responding both ways. They just don't want to look dumb for meeting strangers off an app. If they're on tinder 90% will fuck any guy they deem 'worthy'
[–]xSupportOnly 1 points1 points1 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
What if I just straight up call out on that? Something like '' Well that has to be one of the best excuses, does that still work? ''
[–]GIFtoGasm0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wouldn't. But that doesn't mean this sub wouldn't recommend it. It's easier to press other topics for sexual topics for me, so I don't come off forced. That's just me though.
[–]DeepRelay2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm with on this. I've said stuff like this in the past with good success; "Well I'm here to get help buying a gift for me niece, why else would I have an account?" and "I'm just looking for aquarium advice."
[–]corsega3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
So basically I always ask girls what they are looking for on Tinder
No. Stop doing this. Women are covert communicators. You are communicating in an overt way and probably drying a few vaginas up.
Listen to what she does, not what she says.
You can probe what she's looking for with your words, not by directly asking.
[–]xSupportOnly -1 points-1 points-1 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Well some Tinder guides on TheRedPill disagree with you, but I understand what you mean. Though not asking what she is looking for can lead to getting no escalation at all and being her go-to guy. I also only ask it after I built some rapport.
[–]corsega1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Which guides?
There's really no point in asking. You are almost never going to get a straight answer. Women do not know what they want, and even if they do, they're not going to reveal it to a guy on Tinder without being seen as a slut.
If a girl is on Tinder, she wants to fuck. There is no "looking for friends", there is no "no sex until marriage". By the very instant she opens her account, she is open to a good dicking.
[–]xSupportOnly 2 points2 points2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Not really true in my opinion. There are a lot of timewasters (probably 90% out there) who just want to get validated by some beta bucks. A lot of girls don't want to leave their houses. Not every girl on Tinder wants to fuck.
[–]corsega2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm not saying she is fucking, or even that she wants to fuck you, I'm saying she wants to fuck.
Even the hot girls that are there for Instagram followers when you're talking to them are secretly hoping to swipe right on a 10/10 Chad Thundercock that will fuck them silly.
Trust me, when I first installed Tinder, I used a male model profile so I could see how girls reacted. It's absolute insanity. It's a world you and I are not privy to.
[–]xSupportOnly1 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yeah that makes sense, good comment. Thanks for participating!
[–]neopet1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's a shitty question because their intentions are already implied by using the app: meet men they're attracted to.
Triggering ASD isn't something you should aiming for, stop asking them that.
[–]drizzcaken 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's okay to ask them what they're looking for considering majority of women on tinder DO use it for validation and have no intentions of meeting up unless you are super attractive.
Just agree on being friends or that you're just looking to hang out and chill then suggest keeping in contact so you can get their number.
If she gives you the number escalate, if not then you're just wasting your time.
This always works for me.
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