Ive gotten to the point that for personal reasons, i’m staying in my LTR. She has a family friend that said he’ll hire me when I graduate in a year, I’ll make twice as much there compared to any other potential employer. However, my LTR has cut off sex and constantly disrespects me and my time. She comes over uninvited and is demanding. I would tolerate some of it if she let me hit, but not anymore. Things have gone too far and it’s now a one sided relationship. She entertains other men too which pisses me off.

Anyways, I don’t want to stay with her anymore but our relationship holds a once in a lifetime opportunity. My start date would be in 9 months, so I’ll need to stay in it for at least 10. This is my justification for my actual question, which is about cheating. So please don’t tell me to move on to the next or to drop her. I’m downloading tinder to fuck other girls. I had success in the past, but I’ll need to be careful because I’ve heard about guys whose LTRs found out they had a tinder. If someone who relatively knows your LTR sees your tinder profile, your fucked.

I have the money to buy tinder gold. I saw this will allow me to change who can see my profile to only people who i’ve liked. I think this can be effective in making sure nobody she knows can see me. However, this will ruin the other benefits of tinder gold such as seeing who likes you to get more matches. What’s the best way to go about this regarding my situation?

My goal is to fuck as much as I can this summer. I’m in college and when I go home I’ll be 45 minutes away from my LTR. I know what I’m doing is shitty but this job opportunity is too good to pass up and I need to get some pussy. So once again, what’s the most efficient way to cheat on your LTR successfully without getting caught?