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| 2 | My red pill bros, how do I stop being a whiny bitch and start problem-solving whenever I am hit with adversity or difficulty in life? We men are meant to be problem solvers, but a lot of us are sure forgetting how to go on about our problem solving tendencies, anyways, tips and strategies?Own your shit and read side bar. Bring it back to basics. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/23 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Do women really want a man who opens up in a relationship?It’s simple, women want us to be vulnerable but be able to solve our own issues. Another adult doesn’t want to baby another adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Question for all: If you were born as the opposite sex, what would be the advantages and disadvantages for you?I’d abuse the fuck out of whatever advantages I get. Grass is always greener | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 07:45 PM |
| 3 | How would you like someone to show interest in you? What would help you feel appreciated vs used?I’ve been in the midst of taking care of my partner after a pretty debilitating surgery. I am very tired from work, taking care of her, our dogs, and my own needs. I have no desire to fuck these past few weeks. However, pizza and movies honestly has been on my mind for a good minute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 03:18 PM |
| 1 | what makes for a sexually attractive male?Make your girl feel safe to be vulnerable and you’re good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 12:45 AM |
| 2 | We live in a clown world....This is a common joke or trend on a few stock trading subreddits. I know shits been rough for a bit but it’s not like this on a National let alone global scale | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | If you don't like that the girl you're seeing used to be promiscuous, just find another girlIt’s as simple as We as Men need to do better. We’re often seen or want to be leaders, and what have we become obsessed with? Sex. So In turn women leaned towards that because that’s what we showed them that’s what we care about the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 09:18 PM |
| 4 | The "female gaze" vs "male gaze" and why as a guy I get so annoyed at the explanationsProbably this. “Fwiw, I’m told that I’m fairly attractive and people are often surprised to meet my husband because he is a stereotypical nerdy guy who’s 5 inches taller than myself. People hound him over how th did he ‘score’ me. He’s just my type personally Women are multifaceted and what we like varies” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 05:49 PM |
| 5 | If "women" were right about "men", would you even admit it?Beautiful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Sex isn't a need (or is it?)...Any couple will fail if their money and sex isn’t in check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 04:08 AM |
| 1 | How would you react if your partner wanted to try non-monogamy?I would assume you’d venture into other means of satisfying them. People can orgasm from Other ways than just penetration. Honestly this seems like a cop out to me. But on the other end of the person is 100% actually okay with their partner venturing outside of the relationship sexually, boundaries would have be set and stood by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 07:59 PM |
| 18 | men are Hornier than womenIsn’t this just “Women fuck who they want, Men fuck who they can” type of shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 08:56 PM |
| 49 | Why some post wall women get married and have staying powerThere are always outliers. Don’t take all of this shit to heart. Take what resonates with you | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Older Men And Younger Women, Part IV: There are Fifteen Good Years to be a Woman.Information is the same regardless | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Older Men And Younger Women, Part IV: There are Fifteen Good Years to be a Woman.I seen somewhere that the entrepreneur in cars dude is actually married | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/22 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"Sperm and marrow both comes from man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"This is such a weird concept that have been overly over analyzed. I may be ignorant to it but it makes more sense of having two single people with already established lives to come together and find a medium. Only sacrificing their “dating” game/pursuit. Once it’s known that one has an established life the other feels inferior and resentment builds up so they seek approval else where (cheating). That’s why being single works so well for men as years go by. Women can do whatever men can do career… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 01:43 PM |
| 3 | One mistake and they're done (discussion)Shame doesn’t mean a fucking thing. It only matters if we let it. It’s like say you have a genuine interest but some random person says whatever your interest is weird. Are you going to stop doing that? If not, good you established that you are doing it for you. If you do stop then you’re just a bitch for it and seek validation/acceptance | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Just read this shit on another sub. Lmao.Men like sex, women like sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/21 11:03 PM |
| 4 | One mistake and they're done (discussion)Porn is not permanent either but it becomes addictive. To me in Theory it would have similar If not the same effects. I’ve been against jerking off for awhile, and not for the No Fap gig. I’m not entirely sure what the word is but I’m overly conscious of how I look doing anything. So the thought of hunched over beating myself I feel pathetic. Not to say it is but you get the point. So the idea of fucking a machine is on another plane lol. Welcome to my Red Talk | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/21 02:35 PM |
| 8 | One mistake and they're done (discussion)Hard agree with your assessment about fembots. Not a lot admit on here but the emotional enjoyment/interaction with women is actually pretty healthy and nurturing. Not in a sense of “omg I love you let’s spend the rest of our lives together” but in the sense of we’re able to build a romantic dynamic that feeds both masculine and feminine energy in a healthy way. Men are both masculine and feminine, and same goes with women. Being able to find a stable exchange of that is refreshing. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/21 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do women think the bar is set low meanwhile men think it’s set high ?Because I what qualifies as attractive for men and women are different. Most men would fame who they deem attractive or willing to put easily. That’s what fuels us up until we establish and emotional dependence on said female. As for women a decent majority analyzes past sexual attraction. One being, can the man physically protect/take care of them, is the man able to take care of himself let alone her, does he have good judgement of character. There’s a lot more hoops and jumps men go through t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I Notice Friends in LTRS Have Gone “Soft” and I have no desire to be in one.The relationship part isn’t the issue. the issue is how we allocate our time and priorities. Like someone said, if we don’t ever say no and just follow the girl around then yeah fuck that. But if you establish healthy boundaries, give your time free time to yourself and make yourself your own priority then the relationship just works out. The moment you DONT want the relationship or want more and hold back in obtaining that is when you no longer make your self first | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 02:04 PM |
| 29 | What made you realize your plate is not LTR material?Nacho bitch | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 02:31 PM |
| 2 | How do you match with HBs on tinder and others apps?And that’s the go-to for a majority of people on this sub that tend to avoid for some reason. Work with what you have. I myself am fairly short. Nothing I can really do about that. Sure, can get those lifting shoes soles but what that does when I’m naked tucking a girl? Nadda. So I own it. “Tallest 5’6” dude in the room”. But like you, I eat clean, work out, work on social skills so I’m not autistic and making about being a mermaid. Work with what you got and own it, that’s what frame is about | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 04:00 AM |
| 3 | How do you match with HBs on tinder and others apps?Dating apps only appeal to people that are Astonishingly gifted physically. Sure you can be average and get some successful plays but you’re wasting your time mostly. Really dating app conversations should last 3-4 messages then get their number and from there establish a meet up. This is why TRP says to keep texting logistics only. So you have enough to talk about in person and so you aren’t wasting time. You fuck them IN PERSON, not over the phone. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 03:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you match with HBs on tinder and others apps?A few things. At first glance he looks like a bitch. And the tone of his bio follows suit. He specifically asks what he can do about his appearance. Which if he read anything from the sidebar he’d know it takes more effort than just looking like an average guy to get a successful lay. His tone in the post comes off as confident first but slowly reveals himself as validation seeking. Vaccine thing isn’t as big of a deal. TRP tends to be pretty right sided politically so anything liberal related w… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 03:49 AM |
| 2 | How do you match with HBs on tinder and others apps?Do You Even Lift | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 03:38 AM |
| 4 | What do you think about Coach Red Pill?He’s a hypocrite. He often dates single mothers. And as another reply here says, it’s all just the same regurgitated information. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Punched my father in the face and cut him out. Am I in the right or wrong?Something stoicism teaches us is to not ignore your emotions but to control your response. You can deescalate a situation like that with “we will continue this conversation later” and legit just go enjoy yourself with others. This is a good lesson for you to take on other areas in your life and I hope the best for you loving forward. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Punched my father in the face and cut him out. Am I in the right or wrong?He would’ve learned his lesson from No contact. I mean benefit for yourself. If you felt better and overall satisfied with your action then you have nothing to feel conflicted of. If you are regretful of it then something you did does not align with your values which I’m assuming is the punch. Moving forward keep conscious of what you doing and feeling. This might sound weird but I love you man, I’m a way that is appreciative for going through life and keep on going. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 03:45 AM |
| 16 | Punched my father in the face and cut him out. Am I in the right or wrong?Physical confrontation should really only be used for defense (either for yourself or someone you are attempting to protect). I mean your dad is an ass for doing that. But I don’t see the benefit in hitting him. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Is 28 too late to start over, make some drastic changes, and really start living?I’m 30, recently quit my factory job to pursue culinary from the very bottom. It’s too late once you aren’t able to do it. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 01:33 PM |
| 14 | Dear Michael from Toronto…you need to stop.There’s Alpha Chad, There’s Beta Billy, and then there’s Michael. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 12:08 AM |
| 7 | Why do girls put 0 effort in, it pisses me off.Because they perceive you as lower value than them. You ain’t shit basically | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Frame control and How to deal with women who have perceived higher value than yourself ?Starts with you my man, be the prize. She will follow suit. You seem to forget that if you (relatively redpill aware) are deeming her of value, you think others aren’t doing the same and orbiting the fuck out of her. Be different, be the prize | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 03:54 AM |
| 4 | Do you think most girls realize when they are hoes? Or are they unaware?Everyone wants that Disney story love story. But with the influence of religion and suppression of polygamy it makes it hard. It’s simple We like to fuck to fuck. Girls like to fuck to fuck too. As long as we are on the same page. The issue arises when we attach a rule “hey you can only fuck me”. What happens down the line you turn into a schmuck. No girl wants to fuck a schmuck. So either be a cuck and let your girl go fuck someone worthy, or get off your lazy ass and keep striving to be that g… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 03:26 AM |
| 6 | Do you think most girls realize when they are hoes? Or are they unaware?They like being a hoe, just that it has a bad stigma. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/21 03:20 AM |
| 1 | She’s not yours she’s your turnNope, women chooses who she wants to have sex with, men have sex with who they can. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 07:09 AM |
| 3 | I want to have sex with women but asa I see vagina I am disgusted.Not a fan of Arby’s either? | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Love between gendersThe truth isn’t finding the right person. It’s accepting inner truth and certain behaviours being more normal than we want to admit. No one in a relationship wants to admit they fantasize about other people. Or have urges towards someone outside of the relationship. And when that is the case, it’s the persons duty to convey that without conviction and it’s the partners duty to either provide a good enough reason to why they shouldn’t (boundary is one of them) or accept it for what it is and fix … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How to get out of skinny fat body typeEat more | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 06:41 PM |
| 0 | 28 yo kissless virgin guy tries online dating and has instant success! (how common is it for men to be unaware of their SMV ?)Beauty standards have been lowered and changed as the years passed. It’s strangely simple to reach top 20% look wise. The effort to traverse up the gap between 0-top 20% is far easier than between top 20% to top 5% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 11:31 PM |
| 2 | What is a typical (consensual) sexual encounter?A majority yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 11:02 AM |
| 7 | What is a typical (consensual) sexual encounter?A non-socially retarded way of going about it is simple. Always assume attraction, always assume consent UP UNTIL THEY LITERALLY SAY NO OR GESTURE NO. As soon as any resistance is put up, you retract your advance and perform damage control. Don’t apologize, your attracted to her. Don’t fucking apologize for finding someone attractive and making a move. Maybe she’s nervous, maybe she ain’t about it. Regardless, don’t advance immediately after a no. No orgasm is worth legal matters. Also if you ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/21 10:33 AM |
| 1 | What do I respond to her rules that she has set after first date sex?Relationships are always on the table. The same way as Women are gatekeepers to sex, we are the gate keepers to relationships. How many times have a girl said at the start of a conversation “I’m not having sex with you tonight” in some form and end up getting her shit dug out. It’s goes both ways, we end up catching feelings for a girl regardless on how or what we think after swallowing what’s we colour pill. Relationships feels good, it’s rewarding when properly attended to by BOTH people. This… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 06:25 AM |
| 1 | What do I respond to her rules that she has set after first date sex?Hey requests are reasonable but delivery is kind of wacko. If she pulls the whole “well you never know nowadays” that just says her choices aren’t the best | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Because of Betas and dudes willing to fuck anything, even bottom tier girls have decent SMVWhat you’re explaining is natural selection which is something females use to gauge SMV. You a bitch? | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 02:59 AM |
| 23 | "Bros before hoes" "chicks before dicks" - do you actually follow this code?Nope.I follow the “me first” code | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Tinder without LTR finding outDrive over to the next city. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's fair to say that a lot of the issues faced in dating would be solved if men had a lower sex drive or women had a higher one?You want what you can’t have, and over abundance of something can get tiresome or annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 01:18 AM |
| 1 | if it is evil for women to even consider income wealth and career in a mate...It’s not evil, it’s what we are conditioned to think it’s evil. We all have specific values for certain situations. Example; I can fully accept of someone wants to date me for only my money. That’s on me whether or not I’m okay with being taken advantage for that. But it’s entirely okay for me to ONLY talk to you if I want to fuck you with no relationship attachment. That’s on that person to decide if they are okay with that. Dating is and will always be transactional. The people that bitch abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Why do I primarily Match only with fat girls ?Hey it’s the tandoori chicken guy again. Uh if you aren’t objectively attractive then stay off of dating apps. You’re setting yourself up for failure. Better to do your thing in person and hope your charisma/frame can outweigh whatever physical deficiencies you have. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Stick with long distance gf or be pushed into arranged marriage?Then break up with LDR, meet the arrange wedding girl a few times, try and smash. Reject marriage. Seek high value women that are already successful | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Stick with long distance gf or be pushed into arranged marriage?Tandoori Chicken is pretty good. After reading through comments and skimming through your post. What does her succeeding in her own career have to do with you? Are you banking on her success for you to be successful? Or do you just want a successful partner? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 08:12 AM |
| 1 | We’re in a pandemicWin some lose some. You went about it the right way. Move on | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Quick advice on whether to bulk or cut?Maintenance but clean up your diet | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 03:22 AM |
| 0 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?Too often | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 12:33 AM |
| 2 | How to stop worrying about what my gf might do when going clubbing without me?1.) you trust her (should be the end of your post. If you have to explain why she would invade that trust then you don’t actually trust her) 2.) how are her friends? If they are ones to do hoe shit then most likely she will follow suit. Bird of a feather fly together 3.) if your worries about it regardless if you trust her or her friends are chill, then you’re just insecure and need to start giving a shit about yourself to hold yourself to some value. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Is it actually worth putting effort into life as an ugly guy?Variables are different, but same equation | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 10:09 PM |
| 2 | How can one argue against the idea that men live vastly harder lives than women at every level of the totem pole? And with this in mind, why should women be allowed to speak on men's issues with any degree of authority?You don’t need to know anyone personally to have empathy and compassion. Go outside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 08:21 AM |
| 2 | How can one argue against the idea that men live vastly harder lives than women at every level of the totem pole? And with this in mind, why should women be allowed to speak on men's issues with any degree of authority?Then you show compassion to the ones affected, family friends. How are you not getting this. This is basic shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 08:15 AM |
| 3 | How can one argue against the idea that men live vastly harder lives than women at every level of the totem pole? And with this in mind, why should women be allowed to speak on men's issues with any degree of authority?Feminism down to its initial intent is equality spread amongst all. They should discuss it but it’s overshadow by predominantly female struggles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 08:13 AM |
| 1 | How can one argue against the idea that men live vastly harder lives than women at every level of the totem pole? And with this in mind, why should women be allowed to speak on men's issues with any degree of authority?Who’s talking about responsibility, I believe the word you are looking for is compassion. The same compassion towards issues that females suffer from that you must have or else you’re misogynistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Skinny, bad teeth, average income, and no social skills. Should I just ignore dating until I’m better?Yea | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 3 | How do I learn to dress wellOften gods are depicted wearing togas or shirtless. Start there? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Lifting weights and nutritionWhat are your numbers? Also you’re missing some big lifts. You’re neglect like half of your body. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Lifting weights and nutrition30 reps is for muscle endurance. 8-16 for hypertrophy | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Loyal beta or be more alpha and risk losing her.Trick her into playing spin the bottle. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 09:39 AM |
| -1 | Eye contactContext | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 05:37 AM |
| 8 | Told Ltr I want to see other peopleReality - you aren’t ready for LTR, so you should work on yourself to build up your own self worth. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Women have a major advantage in the short term but are dealt a shit hand in the long term when it comes to SMV and I kind of feel genuinely bad for them. We guys should be more grateful.No question, just him thinking he had an epiphany about the sexual market | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 07:17 AM |
| 3 | Does it REALLY get better as you get older?It gets better whenever you decide to put effort into making it better. You don’t magically hit a birthday and all of a sudden everything works out. I know a handful of 40yr olds that have it made with money women and happiness and some other 40yr olds that are struggling as if they were just finding this sub. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 12:13 AM |
| 8 | Are You Guys Getting Vaccinated?To answer your question, yeah already got vac’d. Everything else you wrote reads like a high school journal entry. Have identity of self and do what you want and what you feel is the correct choice. Exhaust all resources you have to make your decision. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 02:32 PM |
| 0 | LTR mad at me over girls on my feed, but has dozens of orbiters on hers.First thing you do when you land is open up Instagram, Why? And you can’t control what pops up on your feed? I mean you can. This is a comfort test, fucking take care of your girl. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 06:58 AM |
| 2 | TL;DR: "Men who are 8/10+ in looks while I'm 3/10 should not Pump&Dump me and instead Wine&Dine me and give me everything I want for free and stop being such sh!tty fckboys. The hookup dating market is all men's fault. The modern dating landscape is built upon a church of fckboys, and it must die."I’ll take a dick measuring contest with a women any day | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/04/21 06:54 AM |
| 114 | Anyone from around NYC / Connecticut area want to meet up for drinks?You’re better off posting this on Grindr. You’ll get more responses there | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Have you tried buying courses or coaching to improve your game with women?Knowledge is free | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Are fetishes or kinks a red flag?No, it’s the idea of something they can’t have is what they want. It’s common human nature. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 10:06 PM |
| 5 | If you give her the best D she’s ever had, she will never leave youWhenever you use the word “best” it’s always subjective. In reality there is probably someone who can give the “D” better than your best. However you are the deciding factor whether or not you giving her the best “D” in other areas as well. For example, you aren’t going to put someone who slams home runs all the time but sucks on the field at second base just because he hits slammers. You’re going to use him for what he’s good at. That being said, be relatively good all around and you’ll be fine… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 10:03 PM |
| 23 | Seriously, I’m done holding doors and making space in the walk aisle.I’ll hold the door for you any day Princess | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/21 06:25 PM |
| 0 | I get irrationally angry when I get the slow fade. I know its an ego issue, How do I control my ego?Validate yourself. Look up Shadow work | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Constant fear of gf cheating on me ?Raise your self worth | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with significant SMV increaseSimple; want to be able to relate or engage with such conversations? Act questions, express you desire to have similar to experiences. It opens the floor to have group trips and such. Want to create a social media presence? Then do it, but do it with a purpose. Your activity online should always have purpose towards a growing something in your life. Social, financial, intellectual. If it’s just to look at pictures of girls or random bullshit then you’re wasting time. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Dealing with significant SMV increaseNo where in his post he says he feels as he has to be validated or accepted by his group of new acquaintances or friends. He wants to be able to relate and connect with them. Get out of the idea you have to prove you don’t need anyone. This sign what this post is about. It’s not about a need, it’s about a want | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | FrameTherapist Also lose the ego | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Late Bloomers, How do You Deal with Haters?TRP is just a name giving to an ideal/philosophy. A lot of factors come into play such as culture, childhood, parental influence. A small % finds this subreddit specifically, and even at that a lot of the people that come across it refuse to accept it due to their conditioning. Hence why it’s called Redpill. We have a huge advantage with this knowledge. Truth is truth no matter how you spin it, and that’s what makes this philosophy so powerful. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 04:52 AM |
| 4 | Late Bloomers, How do You Deal with Haters?Your last two words in your post. “Thank You” Should be your only response. Reason being, you have people taking notice in your growth. Your growth has exceeded the point to where it’s visible and envied. Thank you acknowledges it as truth, that you put forth the effort than many won’t or can’t. Thank you is how you effortlessly past any trash talk, you’re elevating your state of mind and bringing that entire conversation into your frame. Your frame being that you turned a nerdy kid into a fucki… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Need a reality check. Im about to get cheated on right?You are cheating if you are in a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Need a reality check. Im about to get cheated on right?Depends on what your morals are. TRP is amoral. We don’t favour one side or another because that’s not how reality works. Nice guys get fucked over for a reason while the assholes prosper short term. Look at it objectively. What does it do for you physically, emotionally, spiritually. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Need a reality check. Im about to get cheated on right?I like you | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Need a reality check. Im about to get cheated on right?Few things I was to capital on in this post u/bindaeduk101 You want tough love from us, we aren’t your father. That’s your father’s job. If he didn’t do that then you need to seek out a positive male role model IN PERSON. Non eof us have credentials or can prove ourselves. Take what we say with a grain of salt because at the end of the day, this is your life. Not ours, as soon as I close my phone my care for this is gone. Back to your situation, lot of red flags and the only green flags you post… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Girls get shy with eye contactWas walking through the mall early and caught some eye contact with these two girls. Want to feel like you have the biggest dick in the room, Nod and keep walking | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 11:26 PM |
| 2 | First ever sexual Red pill real life experience messed me up, need help.Need advice on how to cope with what? Reality not being the Happily Ever After you saw in movies? The game is rigged for the bottom 80 to fail. Work towards being in the upper 20 (it’s not that difficult, by waking up you’re already have way there. Now you just have to put in the work) | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me, or is a "top 20% male" simply a self-respecting, normal, healthy man with his life together?29 | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me, or is a "top 20% male" simply a self-respecting, normal, healthy man with his life together?To answer your title, yes. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Don’t talk about fight clubu/VasiliyZaitzev | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/21 11:40 PM |
| 11 | Don’t talk about fight clubI remember reading a post maybe at the start of quarantine about how this guy’s LTR and dog were shit testing him. He was concerned about a dog shit testing him.. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/21 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Do you guys lose interest in easy girls?Girls are fun..when they have interest. It’s very very easy to figure out when a girl strings you along. At that point there isn’t a reason to waste your time | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 05:03 PM |
| 8 | Don’t talk about fight clubOpen Long Term Relationship. (One sided, my side) | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/21 02:20 PM |
| 6 | She comes back apologizingSchedule a date, escalate, make into plate if you want to fuck her. If not then don’t waste your time | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 07:01 AM |
| 25 | Don’t talk about fight clubAgreed, I’ve held conversations with my girls about certain boundaries and expectations I have based off TRP principles, but like you said I don’t go spewing out shit about “well we will only work out if you’re in my frame”. It’s retarded and setting yourself up for failure. Someone else said it in a comment, females already know most of this stuff. It’s instinctual, you don’t need to verbalize that you are leading or anything like that. Act on your thoughts. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/21 05:34 AM |
| 27 | Don’t talk about fight clubIt ain’t that deep dude. And you missed the whole point. Keep whatever RP knowledge you have to yourself outside of reddit | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/21 04:21 AM |
| 7 | She Says I'm Acting Insecure, when I Remind Her How Good She Has it With MeLet your actions speak for you. No need to remind her, it loses it worth. If she really does have it good with you, then your absence should usher her into your frame | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Plate wants monogamyAh yes, you already jumped into her frame. You paying for her test for why? That’s her responsibility to either enforce protection for her own sake. You want to keep fucking her but you don’t want exclusivity. Way the options, is there other pussy out there? Yes. Is her push worth dropping other pussy? Probably not but that’s not for me to decide. You don’t want exclusivity? Then don’t give it to her. You already entered in her frame, get yourself out and do your thang | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Not bait: Are women turned off by high bodycounts at a young age?Natural selection, you gain value because other girls desire you. They see other people giving you worth so they want to know what’s so great about you | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Not bait: Are women turned off by high bodycounts at a young age?Natural selection | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Recently divorced my wife. How can I combat these feelings of jealousy?You NEED to change your perspective She hit or is coming close to the wall (it isn’t always 30) You sir still have plenty of miles on you before your hit your prime in the sexual market. Stay healthy, stay fit, stay on whatever purpose you got. Get out there, you’re gonna fail but that’s part of the process | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend wants to know all of my whereabouts and activities on the days that I don't see her. How much should I tell her?What’s your goal or ideal outcome? Want her hamster to spin? Tell her none but you risk her doing some dumbshit to make her own dread. If you have a healthy relationship, let her know ahead of time your plans as basic as you can. “Yeah imma hit up gym and check out X place” | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 01:48 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] If your own son turns out to be short, doesn’t make a lot of money, and has a small johnson, what are you going to tell him when it comes to dating?It’s less of the whether it’s father or mother and more of what principles are being taught. I’ve heard of fathers giving some dog shit advice or themselves being terrible examples to their children just as much as I hear mothers doing the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Coaches don’t seem to follow their own adviceThere are a few endorsed contributors on TRP subreddit that are similar to this. Some more glaring than the others. Users tend to forget Reddit and whatever else the manosphere uses is still social media, which is well known for fabricating an illusion for what the content creator wants you see/think. News, Media, Social, it’s all the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 11:02 PM |
| 2 | When does staring become weird?When they don’t give an IOI | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 04:49 AM |
| -5 | Would you stay friends with your friend if he decided to transition to female?Asktrp is design for users to ask questions specifically about Redpill theory. Not whether or not you should be friends with another person with the situation holding no relation to sexual strategy. Unless you’re asking how tinplate you’re friend, don’t waste your time here asking this shit | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 01:01 AM |
| 0 | How to not seem like a loner when you are one?I find it difficult to believe you exhausted all of your options to socialize | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 9 | LTR of 2 years asked if I didn’t want to have sex because she’s fat. I said “yes.” She may have left me... what do I do?Bulk Year round, waiting for that 2025 Cut for The US Grenade Classic 2026 | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How to know if she sees you as an alpha?She follows you, above comment states, if you see yourself as an alpha, she will see you as an alpha | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 03:04 AM |
| 0 | Bunch of BP guys ruining my reputation. Should I be concerned?They ruin it by you being concerned. By you acknowledging it is solidifying their actions | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?That’s not how attraction works, people don’t find you attracted out of good fortune | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 02:05 PM |
| 20 | I asked a girl if I was her boyfriend since she’s doing a lot for me and she said I’m her friend friend.He’s a kid, what are you expecting? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | PronounsThis kind of question is for echo chambers, which you are in one, so you already have your answe | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 07:48 PM |
| 16 | Whats a good reply when your FWB asks you about other girls?“Wondering where you’ve been” Then start making that play into a threesome | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: If male birth control existed as a pill like it did for women, would you take it?Yup, I’m in control of whatever possible pregnancy, why wouldn’t I? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 09:02 AM |
| 3 | Got brutally rejected and lost it, how do you keep calm when you're a nutjob?He likes the stock | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 2 | As an alternative to TRP/MGTOW, how about a forum that's only about plating, and devoid of any relationship thinking?This guy nails it, Redpill is a toolbox. Many guys that come here are already involved with one girl and are struggling to find their place in life as well as the relationship. More often than not they are said to visit MRP but the engagement over there is no where near as here. No one is saying You have to read through the bullshit of “my LTR is sleeping over chads house, should I soft next her” post but you gotta understand we’re all here for a large spectrum of reasons and motivations. Only s… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 12:36 AM |
| 21 | Are you good enough?Zyzz is far more aesthetically appealing than Calum, dude is just too big. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | I think I have unresolved emotions and I’m not sure what I should do.Something my therapist once had me to is to mentally imagine a box. For sake of familiarity we’ll call it Pandora’s box. Now whenever these thoughts come through your mind, mentally grab a hold of them and put them in said box. Immediately after you will evaluate your senses. You will list off 2 things you can taste 3 things you can smell 4 things you can touch And 5 things you can see. You will take slow dramatic conscious breaths with each sense. This is a grounding tool to bring you out of wh… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 04:02 AM |
| 4 | LTR denied sex last night. I left. Now getting silent treatment.You did everything just about textbook aside from the timing of your explanation. A very important aspect about relationships that is often glanced over here (due to the disinterest in relationships) is communicating emotions and boundaries. When you revisit the conversation later is when you explain that healthy adults have sex etc etc. for now you should’ve left the hamster wheel spin. But that’s in hindsight, let’s focus on what we can do now. For her to come back into your frame you have to … | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 09:39 PM |
| 7 | Should I cut ties with a shitty friend passive aggressively?“Hey I’m actually on my way to something, I’ll catch up with you another time” | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Why don't guys make Fraternities or Frat-like clubs out of college in major cities? Or just exclusive Men's Clubs?Or just go do things? | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | "She's not yours it's just your turn" is actually a beta coping mechanismThis man is DEERing a comment lmao | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/21 07:42 AM |
| 1 | If you have dealt with depression and made it out alive, I would like your input.Strong men make good times Good times make weak men Weak men make hard times Hard times make strong men | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Am I (18M) being naive when I say that Western women aren’t worthy of marriage and/or LTRs?On par with “does anyone else get looks from girls after working out/make a fuck ton of money/raised smv?” | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 06:58 AM |
| 0 | What do I do about obsessed plate who has gone cold?Get some abundance. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 05:10 AM |
| 1 | GF won’t do analFundamentally, Redpill is great. But shit like this gives it a terrible look at anyone who isn’t biased against it already | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 04:50 AM |
| 1 | GF won’t do analThis is on level with the guy that gets shit tested by his dog. Keep it up, need some humour around here | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 04:45 AM |
| 3 | Yo do you boys send pics to girls?I’ve had this happened to me back in my college years. Doubled down and replied “you act like you’re the only one who saw those pictures”. My bluff stripped her of that leverage. My cock hasn’t been digital since | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 02:41 AM |
| 8 | Her past is filled with manipulation and cheating, she says she has grown and is no longer that person, what do i do?Sounds like a good plate to me | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 12:13 PM |
| 2 | LTR with perfect Looks or perfect Personality?Stable 9 is best case scenario, so yeah agreed | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 09:09 AM |
| 2 | LTR with perfect Looks or perfect Personality?Plate sure, LTR absolutely not. LTR require more time and more of your blue pill side to keep it successful and happy. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 08:51 AM |
| 2 | LTR with perfect Looks or perfect Personality?Better hope your SMV is higher then | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 08:38 AM |
| 3 | I know this is a long post but what advice would you kings in asktrp give if this was posted in hereThis isn’t anything special. Dude lacks abundance in his life. He basically worships this girl and is afraid of her (not confronting immediately). He’s also lying in his post saying he “doesn’t know why he felt the need to go through WhatsApp”. He had a gut feeling, claims he didn’t. And went to snoop on her phone. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 07:46 AM |
| 16 | LTR with perfect Looks or perfect Personality?a stable 7 is better than a crazy 9 and WAY better than a obsessed 4 | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 07:41 AM |
| 0 | By DefaultThe irony of you promoting this versus the whole Disney Movie fantasy. You are a victim of confirmation biased. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/21 11:31 PM |
| 11 | She wants to be treated like who she is.Because we’ve all been hurt by a girl with a dream catcher tattoo and we need something to nitpick at instead of realizing it was just our turn | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/21 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Where the fuck do I find Red Pilled Women? How do I know that I have found one? What are your Guys' Experiences with RPW?You lead by example. It’s explained many many many times over, women unconsciously seek men with these values. Hence shit tests and hypergamy. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 05:44 AM |
| 9 | Do you tell your plates that you're seeing other chicks ?“I like what we have now and don’t want to ruin it, let’s just have fun with it” If she ain’t about it she ain’t about it. Abundance mentality Edit: Dread should always be natural and not forced. Women aren’t stupid, they can see you forcing it a mile away and it’s cringey. Less talk more do | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 04:18 AM |
| 12 | Do you tell your plates that you're seeing other chicks ?Nope, and when they ask specifically you say “it’s nothing serious” | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 04:08 AM |
| -2 | Girl I wanted LTR with told me she has a IG account where she posts pictures of her feet?The lengths? What lengths are those | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 01:49 AM |
| 1 | How to go from bullied kid to bully?You’re bullied because you are scared. Join a martial arts gym. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 11:57 AM |
| 6 | Anyone here had any experience with an LTR that cries on occasion, and doesn't tell you what's wrong?Two ways to look at this, you seem caring enough to not go about it like a dickhead so I’ll spare you the “not your problem” Schpeel. Never repeat yourself. However you want to say it, ask her “what’s wrong?” If she opens up, great, now it’s your job to take her out of that mindset and bring her into your world/frame. Remember, your LTR is just a responsible teenager, treat her as so. Her problems are minuscule in comparison to actual issues. If she does not open up, then leave it alone but stil… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Uncle Vasily/u/VasiliyZaitzev | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Opinion of my new tinder accountYou’re looking at it wrong. The center focus should be you, always you. So think of whoever is in your picture as an accessory. Girls if they are attractive. Like objects timely attractive. This is Natural selection. Uh boys if they are lame as fuck. But most importantly, make sure you’re doing fun shit. Hiking, Sky diving, out at a club, skiing, literally anything that isn’t sitting in your room. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Uncle VasilyYup, on his profile or sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Opinion of my new tinder accountAside from the unflattering pictures, only use dating apps if you can visual display social proof or if you’re extremely attractive | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Which is the most sexually stimulating? Poll. Comment your top 2 with the most stimulating firstLooking at myself in the mirror | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 05:57 AM |
| 1 | LTR found my secret stash of stuff by accident and I liedDon’t take it serious, that’s how you deter from seeming like an asshole buuuuut that shouldn’t matter regardless | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 04:47 AM |
| 2 | After the age of let’s say 25 are there girls that haven’t slept with dozens of people?There are always outliers | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 05:48 AM |
| 11 | Girl doesn't give headShe doesnt give YOU head before sex. Soft next her if it’s a big deal to you. Or if you can read the vibe CORRECTLY, assume it’s a shit test or whatever. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 05:21 AM |
| 17 | Lurker finally postsThis post is weird, usually whenever I see paragraphs about self loath or statements of reformations it’s blanketed over wanted validation which you rarely get here. What exactly is this contributing to the community? Lift, Don’t Give a Fuck, be selfish with intention? These are all pillars of what basic Redpill theory is | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/21 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?Taller women are often easier to pull if you have the confidence. Reason being, they deal with a lot of insecure guys and often want to “feel” small. Notice I said feel and not “be” small. As a 5’6” male I’m often the tallest 5’6” male they’ve met in awhile. I’ve dated a few girls that were on the cusp of 6ft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 08:43 PM |
| 13 | Be the Beta - when appropriate.In this subreddit it’s often implied You care = beta = emotional = broken frame. The numerous post I’ve seen in the past advocates to never “just be yourself” because we’re all here to change ourselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | LTR consistently texts another guy?Can also be overestimated, hence why I said insecure. I mean it can go both ways. But if she is cooperating and showing reasons and evidence to trust her, why keep pushing the agenda of her lying? That’s just going to push her away and probably to the other guy. Then it just becomes “women bad AWALT”. Blankets his own issues with this and never improves on the real reason why he’s in the position he’s in | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 03:21 PM |
| 5 | Harassment issues at LTR’s jobOkay, Sunday 7:00pm. Applebee’s. Wear something cute for me 😏 | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | LTR consistently texts another guy?Read the post dude. He says she was telling the truth and looked through their conversations. What you’re saying is literally why a girl would cheat. Basically giving this random foreign dude value. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Harassment issues at LTR’s jobYou’re trying real hard to get me break it off with this girl lol you jealous or something? Go lurk some gay dating site, I’m not interested | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | LTR consistently texts another guy?Shame is self induced. Trust your girl but always confirm. He and she confirmed nothing is going on. He’s insecure | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Harassment issues at LTR’s jobYou’re treating this shit like it’s astrology for men. Redpill is a toolbox. I take what I need when I need. Get out of being angry at how women hate you and move on | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Harassment issues at LTR’s jobYou’re the type to apply Redpill to literally everything in your life, you probably think your dog shit tests you or something | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Harassment issues at LTR’s job“So you're going to white knight your LTR? To be honest, get rid of the LTR, let it deal with it's own mess.” Naah I’m fucking my girl on the regular, no white knighting here “You're losing your sanity just by taking on it's problems. This is not your problem. This is not a relationship forum. This is the fucking RED PILL. READ THE fucking sidebar.” When it comes to my girl‘s safety that she is struggling with, it’s my problem. Sidebar is not relevant to this “Go pursue other cunts(plural btw), … | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 08:16 AM |
| 3 | Harassment issues at LTR’s jobI have no desire to engage with him all of the reasons you listed. This isn’t my fight but it’s my job to keep my girl feel safe and supported. As for legal matters, she has spoken to police about the tire slashing. The job refuses to do anything about it. As of right now, she has an eye witness on what happened today. She finally agreed to getting some restraining or protective order tomorrow. Her fear is him losing his job and then him going after her. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Harassment issues at LTR’s jobAlready has been done, the two slashed tire cases are documented | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 06:54 AM |
| 3 | Ex/fling just died. Just feel "off".You are correct | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Is a prior fwb relationship automatic disqulifer?So Low or High N Count. That’s under his discretion of what’s acceptable. Why the fuck is he asking us what to decide for him | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 08:42 PM |
| 22 | Ex/fling just died. Just feel "off".It’s a means of taking it to one extreme to the other. It’s either you’re a stoic emotionless man or a whiny emotional bitch. Fuck being numb. That’s depressing as shit and if you don’t do you’re in denial and your ego is in control. RP needs to outline hey it’s not about ignoring your feelings, it’s delaying your reaction to them for you to process logically | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Is a prior fwb relationship automatic disqulifer?No, Madonna-Whore is just simply spinning plates. From my understanding, he’s asking if it’s a red flag if a girl has casual sex. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Is a prior fwb relationship automatic disqulifer?I was going to say isn’t that dating is? “Hey so I was fucking this girl once or twice a week, is that a red flag for LTR?” Like what? | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 08:05 PM |
| 138 | Ex/fling just died. Just feel "off".A part of her resonated with you. She was in your life. Perfectly normal. You’re human. Just because Redpill theory is immoral doesn’t mean we are | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 1 | 22, never kissed/fucked a girl, want that to change ASAP before I graduate this summer. What should my plan be?Pay for it. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Is there any scenario where it isnt "just your turn?"“It’s your turn” is the same concept as AWALT. AWALT does mean All women will cheat on you, just that they have the capability. Same applies. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | LTR consistently texts another guy?Trust your girl but always confirmed. You confirmed, now stop your hamster wheel because it’s going to push her away. You should be focused on yourself and elevating you to be leagues past this dude. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 02:01 PM |
| 3 | LTR consistently texts another guy?Not always true, he seems insecure | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What is a blue-pilled man?Prostitute? I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:55 AM |
| -2 | What is a blue-pilled man?One who negotiates time and favours for sex and sexual validation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Zen and meditation resourcesSeeing that no one here can actually answer your question, look up Jake Woodard. He’s probably exactly what you are looking for. Any of the basic apps like headspace or calm is good. Tim Ferris also has a good outline on how to approach your daily mission. Best of luck bro | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 03:58 AM |
| 7 | Men who have reached the top 10% - do you game/spin plates on easy mode, do women really throw themselves at you or is it still a numbers game with lot of rejections?“Who says that? I am not top 10% but I think I’d be like 25%” -Me, I just said that, and good job, keep going “Why would I stop trying to improve once I’m 10%? You can always learn from the questions others ask, maybe they make you rethink what you have been thought to be already perfect.” -You don’t stop, there is no real end game to this. This is askrp. The guys that are above us is as everyone should be, glued to the side bar. “Rp is much more than just dating. It’s about being the best versi… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 01:09 AM |
| 6 | What is a good advice to a friend who got dumped and seeks revenge.“Resentment is like swallowing poison and expecting the other person to die.” Move the fuck on | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 10:01 PM |
| 131 | Men who have reached the top 10% - do you game/spin plates on easy mode, do women really throw themselves at you or is it still a numbers game with lot of rejections?Odds are the mean who reached the top 10% arent on here | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 09:59 PM |
| 2 | How do you even demote a LTR to a plate?“I’m looking to take some more time to work on myself and don’t want distractions” You’re honest, you’re straight forward. You’re showing value in yourself and respect for both parties, also it gets the hamster wheel going. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Plate sends me a long ass message wishing me Happy Valentine’s DayThis sums up almost every post here and some on the regular subreddit. Everything is a shit test, always being pushed on whether or not you’re seen as alpha Chad or whatever you want to call it. It’s literally all insecurity and and cry for “am I good enough”. Idk man are you? Why does it matter if this chick sees you as alpha Chad. RP preaches about abundance yet so worried about impressing a handful of girls. Work on that ego and insecurity first | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Think as you like but behave like others; Valentine’s Day editionA whole lot of damaged egos from the woodworks. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/21 12:42 AM |
| 5 | In a LTR I care to much about cheating and stuff like that.You’re insecure. Work on yourself before getting into an LTR. this isn’t even RP, this is basic shit | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 07:43 PM |
| 6 | Too afraid to get into a fight. What do I do?This is one of many reasons why it’s reinforced to get into some sort of combat training. Not really for the technicalities (because when it comes to street fights, there are no rules. You won’t out jiu jitsu a knife) but for the mental benefits. Feeling like you can take on anyone changes your whole demeanor. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 12:34 PM |
| 3 | LTRs sexual pastTrust your gut | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 10:14 AM |
| 20 | Should I confront my LTR for cheating on me behind my back or just cut her out completely without a word?The latter | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 04:05 AM |
| 37 | Looks 101I can’t get passed how one sided some of these examples are. Like yeah it does prove your point but you’re cherry picking you’re supporting details. You’re comparing a professionally taken photo of male models that are enchanted to what looks like a gang of IT support and some dude in his basement. I’m pretty sure those glasses DBeckham was wearing would look terrible on the basement dude. Chalk it down with, Enchance your pros, hide your flaws (shitty jawline, grow beard) or just own it if you … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/21 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Is there a way to stop hating women?Dont take it personal. It’s in their nature, same way how we few them down to primal instincts. Most of the time we just want to fuck. That’s in a way degrading their use to us. Just enjoy yourself and don’t take them serious | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 07:35 AM |
| 8 | What Should I Focus On In High School ?Money opens a whole new version of life. It doesn’t create happiness but it allows you to find it | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 04:51 AM |
| 10 | How to handle a flake apologizing to me“No worries” then either wait for her to initiate contact to which you make plans if you want or just move on. Do what you want to do dude | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Turning EX LTR to PlateThis reminds me of throwing away a box without reading the instructions. Digging through the trash because I didn’t learn. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 10:49 PM |
| 9 | Do masculine men employ sarcasm?Look at the material female comedians tend to use. Females speak covertly, even through humour. Nothing funny about pushing the feminist movement and trying to cover it with giggles | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 10:06 PM |
| 4 | How to shake this?Desire is basically sexual energy, I think semen retention goes into this alittle but you can do your own research on that. Anyway, channel your sexual energy into working out rather than playing out day dreams of fondling this chick’s tits. Jake Woodard has a decent podcast that covers this if you don’t mind the whole spiritual mumbo jumbo. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 04:44 PM |
| 9 | What’s a high status way of deflecting comments about your relationship status“Out on girls nights with my other girlfriends” | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 04:41 PM |
| 2 | How to get the sharp male model face look?Less sodium means less bloat/water retention. Means your face won’t look as puffy | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How to get the sharp male model face look?15-20 is a pretty decent gap, also most of the time it tends to get perceived as lower than what it actually is. Go find out correctly | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | How to get the sharp male model face look?Less sodium | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 04:22 PM |
| 18 | How to deal with urges to fuck a specific woman?“I want to fuck her so bad” Whenever I see shit like this is an immediate sign of oneitis or the start of it. Go talk to other women. Block the one you want to fuck “so bad” | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 2 | If you could impersonate a fictional character, who it would be?Ace Ventura, Pet Detective | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 01:16 AM |
| 1 | What does TRP think of women who chop their hair off?They have shorter hair | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 01:14 AM |
| 1 | If you do not spend atleast half an hour to work out in a day, you deserve to be unfit and unattractive.Just don’t be fat | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 11:37 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on fucking girls already in an LTR?Don’t shit where you eat | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 06:43 AM |
| 6 | Do you care about Valentine’s Day?I do, I like to enjoy things, no matter how dumb they may be to other people. You can absolutely game/lay girls on this holiday. Matter of fact might even be easier because it’s covertly conveyed. Covert is the language of the female. But yeah, they lonely, want that lovey dovey, go get some. Just don’t be stupid and blow 200+ $. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Should we accept a womens sexual past?If it matters to you, then yeah, you should care. But objectively no it doesn’t and bringing it up in a negging way will just hurt you. Either accept and move on or don’t bother with her. You’re in charge | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Should I go without women if they're the reason I'm not improving myself anymore?You should or would be at the point where your original issue shouldn’t be relevant since you worked on yourself so diligently. If you do go back to your own ways, back to monk mode for you...or be a bitch. The choice is yours friend | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 04:02 AM |
| 6 | Should I go without women if they're the reason I'm not improving myself anymore?No shit | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 03:02 AM |
| -1 | Am I the asshole for refusing exclusivity after my FWB went above and beyond taking care of me after nearly dying and going through a debilitating surgery recovery?She’s a rare breed nowadays but also this very well just be her trying hard to betabux you. I mean, if you do choose to LTR her, be in your game. Cause AWALT, and if she gets bored or if you aren’t her Chad at all times she’s prepare for that branch. This is less of her and more on how you handle either route | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 12:35 AM |
| 2 | How to display acceptable aggressive behaviour?Affirmative action when solving problems without use of unnecessary force | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | I’ve read the sidebar and I still don’t get itWhatever she thinks she needs, whether it’s a good fuck or a provider. Shit changes as they age | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Holding frame in a healthy LTR?You don’t understand frame, rather you are overthinking it? Whatever the case, just hold your boundaries | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Reading non-sex psychology stuff makes me confusedI agree, to an extent. Depends on who you surround yourself with. If it’s around your bros that actually want to see you succeed then why the fuck not. If it’s to random bitches, I mean it depends, some yeah I can see how they would view it as weak subconsciously but honestly I’ve had more positive remarks when I mention ways I’m improving. Not saying I need improvement I know it’s not your forté or goal but I myself am in a LTR and she loves to here whenever I’m working on myself. She actively … | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Reading non-sex psychology stuff makes me confusedSelf improvement is linear, and “fucking bitches” as you say is part of it. If your goal is to fuck a lot of bitches and not get into a LTR, you have to understand that TRP is just PUA with a self improvement foundation. If you have no desire to work on yourself then should read more into PUA. But yes, working on internal flaws and trauma will 100% help with your social life as well as sex life | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 07:37 AM |
| 4 | Reading non-sex psychology stuff makes me confusedYour understanding of the human mind is completely skewed | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 07:09 AM |
| 1 | This is my final post; a man defeated by life, seeking advice one last timeHey man, I get it. I’ve been there making shitty posts that just waste my time typing Yo and others time reading. This entire subreddit is either guys seeking validation or to baby them into “fixing” themselves or some of the more common sense questions like “anyone else getting more looks while working out” etc etc. You’ll have people reply “just lift” or “read the sidebar” as shitty and low effort these responses are it’s actually much more to it. We aren’t going to list off one or two article… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 06:38 AM |
| 1 | This is my final post; a man defeated by life, seeking advice one last timeDidn’t really feel like reading all of that, mainly because the tone of it was found within the title. This is just one big self pity post. You addressed what you need to fix. Go lift and eat accordingly. Lift heavy, be consistent. You’re full out so your head or face or whatever you said looks weird won’t draw too much attention. You’re still young, keep your body healthy. Grow a beard, get blood work. Figure out if you are low on T and make the means to get where you need to via holistically f… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 06:30 AM |
| 1 | If a guy wants an LTR that is willing to be childfree does that actually exist or is it a myth?I mean she said she doesn’t want kids ever. I’m just open to that discussion being had again and reconsidering. But as of right now, no kids. We both have our own dogs. 30 and 28 | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 03:41 AM |
| 1 | If a guy wants an LTR that is willing to be childfree does that actually exist or is it a myth?Me and my girl are in a LTR, she has a IUD in her because we both agreed on not wanting kids, at least for awhile. No surgery for the chance of us might wanting them later. But as of now, IUD it is. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 6 | Dealing with insecurity with first high SMV LTRReal simple; 3 things 1.) take her off the pedestal and put yourself up there. She’s an accessory to you, not your identity 2.) you have boundaries, stick to those but be reasonable because yeab, you’ll come off as insecure. Example, my girl gets similar attention. I have no control over the dudes and what they do, I have no reason to fight them but that’s just the dating world. We all just tryna eat, HOWEVER. It’s not about what the orbiter does but how the girl handles it. My girl tested me ea… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 11:50 PM |
| 6 | Ltr texting other guyAtta fucking boy. Good work not going ape shit and just dropping her. Everyone, This is an example AWALT and how you should handle it while being in a LTR. Granted she was loyal to him so it made the process easier. He stood by his boundary and she complied. There was no elaborate conversation about how he is just a friend or negotiating. Straight to the point. Good work bud | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 05:31 PM |
| 5 | 17 and need some wisdomSuggest threesome | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 10:38 AM |
| 6 | I Lost My Best Job TodayYou kind of miss the point of post that he clarifies pretty early. He has abundance (in the source of job opportunities so he is t worried as much about his primary). You don’t have the read the whole thing to grasp the concept. Stop being bitter | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/21 03:00 AM |
| 0 | Hooked up with girl off dating app. Want to hangout with her again, how soon should I contact?Lol | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 12:01 AM |
| 8 | I really need advice... im alone.No you are not, if you are you wouldn’t be here asking for help for something along the lines of needing approval of the opposite sex. You are as you say, Alone. You aren’t happy with yourself therefore you aren’t successful. You’re empty and you’re trying to fill your void with external female validation. If you need that, go catfish online. If you actually want to fill that void healthfully I suggest you seek medical mental assistance to get you started on outlining what you need to do with yo… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 12:00 AM |
| 2 | How do you move on from your oneitis?More less just to get him out of society | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 09:26 AM |
| 1 | I think I want to LTR her?This is why vetting and the constant push to better yourself to be on your shit is important. They treat us worse most of the time because we get worse and complacent and love drunk. Lose focus on our mission. She’s add to your enjoyment, not be your own enjoyment | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | How do you move on from your oneitis?Join the army | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Sliding into DMsAt your age there really isn’t much, and honestly I would focus more on yourself at that age. I mean whenever you go out just start casual conversation, you’ll grow comfortable over time and rejection. As for the cancer thing that’s up to you, in my opinion that’s none of their concern. That’s your private health but if it’s something you feel the need to preface, just mention an aspiration that you have that can’t be fulfilled because of whatever cancer you have. But don’t make it seem like you… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 07:12 AM |
| 6 | Sliding into DMsUnless you have social proof, No. it’ll get lost in the sea of DM’s she already has. Better to treat it like you don’t even have social media and cold approach in person unless you’re social media presence is business related | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 06:55 AM |
| 31 | It finally makes sense. Shame it took me this long to figure it out.You got it backwards. Man love Women, Women love their child, Child loves the dog, Dog loves the Man. Get a dog | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/21 05:07 AM |
| 14 | What are some big turnoffs that you discovered about a girl that completely lowered your attraction to her after you got to really kno her?Living habits and how she takes care of her personal space. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Can someone be 'alpha' even after having limitations? If yes, how? If no, how to navigate without them being perceived as weaknesses?You’re overthinking this, maybe not but you’re too much weight on that insecurity. If you’re working on it, good keep at it. But once you start worrying about what someone else thinks is when you enter into their world (frame). If you face an obstacle that you need to inform whoever you’re with, simply explain the situation and then thank them after. Women are still human, not every one is going to shit on you for a fear. And if they do, fuck them, move onto the next one. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 08:41 AM |
| 4 | So I Gave NoFap a Try...Thank god you can’t reproduce | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 08:33 AM |
| 2 | So I Gave NoFap a Try...Stop with the hopeful wishing | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 07:55 AM |
| 3 | So I Gave NoFap a Try...Been no fap for a year now, but I’m in a LTR so I don’t face the sexual release droughts that you are describing. I can attest to more energy and more uh discipline I would say. Stronger erections for sure. If you must beat off, do it sparingly and probably not in the morning. Part of no fap is not letting sexual urge control your day. Also no porn but you already know that. It takes 60 days to create a habit, stick to it and you won’t want to Jack off again | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 07:46 AM |
| 1 | So I Gave NoFap a Try...New conspiracy, Russians developed blue balls to rig the voting | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 07:41 AM |
| 13 | Got This Message From (Ex) PlateShe wants you but will settle for you to orbit Edit; you’ve obviously been on her mind from time to time, but mixed with alcohol she could just want you around just incase or just for validation. If you want to I guess rekindle her plate-ship, make plans with her and make it happen, if not then let the dead be dead. They’re ghosts for a reason | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Is seeking perfect women a reflection of my own insecurities?Partially | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 11:31 PM |
| 2 | I'm 17 and about to get braces. Realistically, is this gonna lower my SMV with girls for the next year I have them for, or is it all just game?Get braces and focus on school. Trust me, the girls in high school should not be valued over education | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 12:49 AM |
| 1 | ltr shittest - did i respond right?Idk your situation or dynamic. It just seems like your frame is shit and she knows it. She’s probably settling for you because she’s not getting the “right” attention from other men right now. I mean then do it? There’s a link on the side bad that walks you through the 12 Steps of Dread. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 05:54 AM |
| 1 | ltr shittest - did i respond right?My situation was alittle different than yours, I told my girl that I didn’t want her to go pick up weed anymore and I’ll take care of it. She resisted yadda yadda. Kept quiet, didn’t bring it up again. She complained about not having any. I told her “then go pick up some”. She then asked if I would go with her. Told her she was a big girl, she can do it. She then insisted on me going and ended with “I’ll be a good girl for you”. Remove all emotion and they’ll starve but do it covertly. That’s ho… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 05:52 AM |
| 1 | ltr shittest - did i respond right?That’s where you sir are wrong. You hold all the cards here. You’re higher SMV than her, she maybe knows that hence the shit test. But you are aware of the truth, she doesn’t. You need to incorporate dread if you see her as a positive addition in your life. If she isn’t (which she doesn’t seem like she is) then you have no excuse to keep her in your life. Read, lift, learn to game, and start spinning plates. If for some reason you need to keep her in your life at this moment (cohabitation apartm… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 05:48 AM |
| 2 | ltr shittest - did i respond right?I’m no professional or manosphere guru, I myself just went through I guess what you would call a shit test. So take what I say with a grain of salt, but it seems as she just outright doesn’t respect you. The teasing is different in an LTR I’ve found. You need to be more playful rather than I guess targeting an insecurity. I’ve had success with covertly sexually teasing my LTR, and tremendous failure covertly hitting the wrong nerve with I guess malicious teasing. She gets over it because I outwa… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 05:42 AM |
| 2 | ltr shittest - did i respond right?It won’t be random. Hypergamy a constant battle we face. That’s why lifting, reading, and STFU are crucial to LTR. There’s always a dick waiting for her to jump. And if you are on your game, she’ll covertly make her way there | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 05:34 AM |
| 1 | ltr shittest - did i respond right?Branch swing | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do white women in poor areas date black guys so oftenBecause white men in low income areas are pretty bitchy | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Guys! My girlfriend of 3 years said she doesn’t want a Christmas gift but she got me mad stuff. What do I do?All gas no brakes | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 05:18 AM |
| 0 | Guys! My girlfriend of 3 years said she doesn’t want a Christmas gift but she got me mad stuff. What do I do?Every rose has its torn :) How can you call it shit advice as the one asking for advice? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 04:39 AM |
| 0 | Guys! My girlfriend of 3 years said she doesn’t want a Christmas gift but she got me mad stuff. What do I do?You waited so fucking late lol. Easiest thing to do at this point is to “plan” a trip/vacation. Surprise her with the itinerary. If your relationship falls through at least you get to go on a dope trip. And would if the tix are no refundable, I assume it’d be a nice e flex in the dating world to find a worthy girl to accompany you? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend became "asexual" after 4 years of relationshipMight be too late but attempt dread, either way you come out in the benefit doing so. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 0 | How to overcome this shittestOkay? Why would I care if you do | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 11:14 AM |
| -4 | How to overcome this shittestMy first and primary concern is her safety, secondary is the hamstering | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 11:05 AM |
| 2 | How do I continue forward when I'm just less than a perfect guy in female's fantasy?“I don’t have a mission yet” There’s your problem. Get at it. Let that be your focus and women will hardly matter to you outside of just enjoyment. And from there you will establishment abundance mentality and less stressed by pussy. Also lift, and go to asktrp. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/20 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Society is in decline, so are testosterone levelsDon’t jerk it to porn? Or actually just go fuck? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/20 06:31 PM |
| 10 | [field report] my ex is now obese with several cats and dogs. tragic.Very very very seldom you’ll find a member that has the collective fully figured out and the credentials to back it up. More often the ones that do no longer waste their time on here and actually pursue their purpose. This has become more so a community that throws out theories and anecdotes of their own experiences and bounce them off one another. Though this subreddit is mostly compiled on sexual strategy, down to the core of what most men and boys should focus on is better one self. Alas here… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Women and weak men will want you to hate TRPThat’s ego. I see what you’re saying but how you feel about it in the grand scheme doesn’t affect how I’m going to handle the situation. So imma still win in silence; just as we are told to suffer in silence. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/20 12:28 PM |
| 17 | Women and weak men will want you to hate TRPI believe what the comment is saying is to yeah shut your mouth, but not for the sake of displeasing others. For the sake of your own progression. Kind of like that rap lyric “real G’s move on silence like lasagna” | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | How to properly shoot your shot over Snapchat?1 year redpilled? Yeah idk about that | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Best form of martial arts to learnThank you all for the suggestions | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Cross post from MRPThe gay dude is married and he’s her coworker. But yes this has developed into a oneitis for her | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 2 | On break with LTR that still wants to make it workI am lifting. But I do believe the attraction has definitely taken a hit. Physically I’m good, it’s the mental part that I’m struggling with. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/08/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | On break with LTR that still wants to make it workThank you | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/08/20 09:54 PM |
| 12 | Ltring a cheaterNo | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 09:18 AM |
| 3 | Do you guys encourage your SO/LTR/Plates when they have obligations such as work, schooling, and hobby pursuing? If so, how?She told you exactly what she expected her man to handle her. One of the guidelines TRP preaches is to treat them as a teenager. You have to lead them to success. Basically set an expectation, reward for following such. If not retract attention. Look at it this way, do you want a successful partner that can handle her own or do you want some child that is constantly lagging behind in life because she’s lazy or having her priorities else where (seeking exterior validation). Vet your girl to be su… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Why is trp centred around womenIt’s designed help you achieve in getting laid. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 06:22 AM |
| 20 | I wear a condom AND pull out. Is that too much?Something about plowing while cumming, those last couple of thrusts + my own groans = my girl cumming too. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | What's up with girls you fuck once or twice going ghost?Don’t be getting oneitis now bud | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | What's up with girls you fuck once or twice going ghost?They cheating | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 03:37 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone here feel like a sociopath? This is not a diss on the red pill. Trp has changed my life.I’ve personally I felt as if I’m going into every situation like it’s a chess game. It gets tiring until you actually internalize the RP principles. TRP is a tool box, use what you need. Don’t overthink it or you will lose your true self That’s why frame is most important, being in your own frame (being yourself, your best self) will take you so far past sex to where it because a waste of your time because you can get it easy. Always frame | /r/askTRP | 17/08/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | What is up with simps saying girls date them cause they respect womenWhere’s the evidence that this dude is actually pulling bitches. Could just be status of some shit like that | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Can men today change society back to what it was prior to the Feminist movement of the 60sYou don’t talk about fight club | /r/askTRP | 12/08/20 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Preparing for a branch swingUhh, what? Lol | /r/askTRP | 07/08/20 02:40 PM |
| 7 | Every time this account logs in, over 75% of threads merit bans (shitpost all you want here)I’m trying to deadlift 225 but it’s not lifting, is this a shit test? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Safe raw sex?My girl got an IUD for me. Shits cash money brudda | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 05:24 AM |
| 8 | What is it like to have actual abundance reality? (no larping)It’s tiring. Cool at first, but if poorly managed very tiring. If you have good enough frame, good looking, good game, good value on your own self take Dan Bilzerian approach. Be honest about everything, if a plate breaks get a new one. Less lying and jumps through hoops. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 02:25 PM |
| 34 | Ex messaged me, we hung out, things got sexual. Agreed to meet again but she doesn't want things to go that far anymore.Pay attention to her actions; not what she says. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Why everyone frowns at PUA?Tip toes on the line of immoral and sociopathic. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:58 PM |
| 5 | Need to be brought back down to EarthBest way to internalize is exposure to the material consistently. Read read read. Stay on your own path my dude. You’ll do alright | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 02:45 AM |
| 7 | Need to be brought back down to EarthPrioritize your happiness and remember to have fun. Once shit starts getting consecutively mentally draining and more of a hassle, get out. Entitlement is a thing, vet this girl into the reward system. She does good, reward her. She doesn’t, Punish by taking away bits and pieces of the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 02:39 AM |
| 8 | Need to be brought back down to EarthYou’re putting your own worth/value based on her being in your life. You’re validating your worth by her existence. Chill with that | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 02:27 AM |
| 13 | An acquaintance the same age as me (24) just told me that he spent around $6000 on his wedding, effectively every penny he earned for the last year and a half as a student between a full-time job and uni tasks. I congratulated him but deep inside, I'd never do that... I'm not sure how I feel about.TRP is usually against marriage. Let alone LTR’s. But it’s not your life or our lives. So why care? | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on hidden cameras inside your home?I have a Wyze camera for my dogs. With the intent to check on my dogs (I work 12hr shifts overnight). Doubles as security. If you’re intent is to protect yourself from rape accusations I recommend perhaps picking better candidates to fuck | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Dealing with an Ex, should I make her a fwb or cut off completely?You ever eat something that just didn’t taste right. And as you kept eating it made you feel sick so you just throw it away. Then you don’t take out the trash so you’ll occasionally smell it and remember oh yeah that’s there. Is your next move is to rummage through the captain to take another bite? | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 06:49 AM |
| 7 | FWB being real sketchy with phone - didn't react or ask although it was close, and heavy on shit tests that i think passed all of, but i have just stopped replying. Now she won't stop texting - guilt or a soft next doing its thing?She’s a FWB, assuming you have no investment. Don’t contact unless you tryna fuck. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 01:17 AM |
| 2 | What is the difference between setting boundaries and mate guarding?Frame and being able to walk away | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 06:14 AM |
| 29 | If a high SMV guy tries to talk to or get attention from a girl I’m with, how do I keep them both in line without mate guarding.You don’t, this is why raising your SMV as high as possible is preached here, so you won’t have that problem (as much) | /r/askTRP | 18/07/20 02:18 AM |
| 6 | Where did you go wrong in your last LTR?Frame | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 08:48 PM |
| 1 | 24(f) wants a LTR but has a lot of male friends. Is this a red flag?Male friends = orbiters Which means you know dem DM’s are being blown up with hearted reactions to validations which means your friends commitment ain’t worth shit to her as long as she got those branches to swing onto | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 12:08 AM |
| 10 | How to deal with your LTR “anxiety”Thank you ass eating king | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 04:41 AM |
| 0 | What do you when a girl identifies red pill behavior and calls you manipulative/abusive/narcissistic?Amused and Amplify. She’s going to assume that you are going to break and agree with whatever feministic shit she has to spew. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 01:34 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Your frame dies when the Inner Children die.I dig it, good view on matter. Especially the “if you have to ask if you lost frame then you probably did” | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/20 02:28 AM |
| 4 | why does all the hit rap and rnb music nowadays try to get you in your feelings?Down the rabbit hole of depression in society we go. For sometime most of the younger community has embraced their feelings and depressive side due to the movement against Mental Disorders and treating them/ making them handled with serious care. Untreated mental disabilities (such as the more popular ones like anxiety and depression) becomes chronic and hard to handle. Older generation has always been an advocate of tough love and handling your business where as the newer generations tend to se… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Thick Latina girls are my type. Is my SMV too low to game these girls though? (Pics included)It’s not my place to knock on your taste, so I won’t go into the whole “you’re over inflating their HB rating or SMV”. For the most part every female is the same. If you are specifically going for the “fit” girls or the ones that are active in the fitness scene (or tries to by tagging random companies gymshark) then I’d probably start doing actual cool shit rather than using gym as your go to. Personally and I’m sure everyone that does get into the fitness side of social media and life you see t… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Don't know why this girl still follows me and watches my IG stories if she's not interestedIt’s manipulative behaviour. It’s to get you to think you have worth so you believe you have a shot so you orbit. Either that or she is interested in you and you failed a shit test, but she’s giving you a sign to not try again. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 04:33 AM |
| 40 | Going to a far-left/liberal arts school. How do I survive?So many laws from 48 Laws of Power apply here Law 3: Conceal Your Intentions Law 4: Always say less than necessary Law 5: So much depends on reputation, guard it with your life Law 12: Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim Law 21: Play a sucker to catch a sucker, seem dumber than your mark Law 32: Play to people’s fantasies Law 38: Think as you like but behave like others this one is probably the most applicable in your situation | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 04:31 AM |
| 1 | LTR of 4 years. Should I dump?Tend to your own garden first. If the soil isn’t right, get new soil. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 04:20 AM |
| 5 | What's your story that would enrage BPers?I make the sex with the girlies with the lights and socks on | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 09:35 PM |
| 17 | Insecurity in a relationship is asking to be broken up with.Always express gratitude. Life is easier and happier this way. Even if it’s something that fucks with you. Like you said, be thankful it happened because it’s a tool for you to become stronger. Just don’t be a bitch and hold that self pity party for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/20 11:34 PM |
| 4 | So my girlfriend called me a while back, could hear she was very drunk. Now she isn't answering my calls no replying messages. She was at her "neighbor's" place. She has never been like even when drunk. So tell TRP, what is going on?Always remember, AWALT. Every girl you meet has the potential to fuck you over. Not all will, but they can. Expect the worst, hope for the best | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | So my girlfriend called me a while back, could hear she was very drunk. Now she isn't answering my calls no replying messages. She was at her "neighbor's" place. She has never been like even when drunk. So tell TRP, what is going on?Start prepping to make your life better starting now. You’re too busy to entertain her behaviour. Contact her when you have spare time. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 08:17 PM |
| 2 | So my girlfriend called me a while back, could hear she was very drunk. Now she isn't answering my calls no replying messages. She was at her "neighbor's" place. She has never been like even when drunk. So tell TRP, what is going on?Then it’s up to you whether or not you respect yourself enough to not allow that to happen more than once. If I were you and she did something like that would to be cut it off. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 08:02 PM |
| 9 | So my girlfriend called me a while back, could hear she was very drunk. Now she isn't answering my calls no replying messages. She was at her "neighbor's" place. She has never been like even when drunk. So tell TRP, what is going on?She’s schlobbin on all of askTRP’s nuts right now, she’ll call you when she’s done. Sounds like you didn’t set any boundaries. I mean she’s an adult, she can do whatever she wants. But she’s an extension of you; so she represents you. That’s where you approach this situation when you have this talk | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | are skinny jeans gayGay is a sexual preference. Are you into men? If not then don’t worry about it | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to shake oneitisI noticed in another comment amongst your “I miss her” spam you asked if you had low T. None of us are doctors or can provide your blood panel. But most likely yes you have low T. I assume you’re chock full of cortisol stressing over this girl. Also notice this is primarily all you post about. You have attached your own personal value to having a girlfriend/this girl. Why? What are you even worth? If you have an answer to that then you have your answer for “ending it”. If you can’t answer that w… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 07:58 AM |
| 1 | I can't seem to shake oneitisFuck it, I’ll bite. You seem retarded enough to actually kill your self over this bitch and most likely you aren’t gonna get actual help here. How old are you? | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 07:48 AM |
| 1 | I can't seem to shake oneitisYeah, I got that the first time | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 07:32 AM |
| 3 | I can't seem to shake oneitisYikes dude wtf? | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys find being a man exhausting? What can I do to not burn out/crack?Sidebar has all the information you need. Majority of this questions down to the core is easily answered by this. This whole instant gratification and laziness is what breeds weak men. This subreddit is redundant because it encourages RP followers to be spoon fed what they need to know then soon forget it after they either see a smudge of success with it or none at all. This shit takes years for it be imbedded in your mind. So yes, read the side bar. And after you’re done, read it again | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 05:49 AM |
| 10 | Do you guys find being a man exhausting? What can I do to not burn out/crack?I think this HB10 is shit testing me on WoW. Won’t talk to me unless I give her loot. How do I apply dominance in my guild without coming off as a bitch boy. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 05:42 AM |
| 5 | Beta male shaming, why 'simping' and 'thirsty' are nefarious tools of the leftSimp is just another form of demasculating each other. It’s an easy way to hit the average guy’s ego. Legitly just shit testing each other | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/20 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Hiding orbitersThank you, excellent response | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Get big or cut?Then lift...lift literally anything, not like quarantine is preventing anyone from being active | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 09:33 AM |
| 0 | Get big or cut?Do this but literally the opposite. Bulk now, cut later | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Just got dumped minutes ago by LTR. How to respond?You too friend. Steady on your path | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 09:18 PM |
| 7 | Just got dumped minutes ago by LTR. How to respond?An “ok” would suffice. Be a man and take it head on. But that doesn’t mean whine cry and beg for her to stay with you. That makes it worse. Just an “ok, take care” will do the trick. She’s either has another guy in mind or has more important things to worry about. Being that this is RP in 2020 we’ll go with the another guy scenario. Give it a month, she’ll miss you. Text you and you will respond and will lead to “I miss you I didn’t want this” and try to get back together. This is the hard part;… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 06:48 PM |
| 4 | How long until you look jacked?That’s newbie gains and those vary too much | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Love my LTR girlfriend, but she has gained weight and doesn't care/try to lose weightDread | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | How much do you think a good looking face matters for being successful with women?Depends on age. I’m socially retarded and can’t hold a conversation for shit but I’ve gotten a fuck ton of IOI’s and double digit n count prior to 25 (which isn’t that much but being that I never chased females cause I was such a pussy it’s a lot in my opinion) Basically younger will chase looks. Mid 20’s to mid 30’s will chase status and money, then older is usually Game and Money (more so money). The older bit is from a mentor. I’ve never gone after Milfs. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 06:41 AM |
| 1 | LTR planning on sending nudes as an art project to her fine arts lecturerHow is what I’m saying is blue pill? You’re claiming she’s a slut under an assumption. Rather how am I offended? This isn’t even my issue lol | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 12:26 AM |
| 0 | LTR planning on sending nudes as an art project to her fine arts lecturerThe meaning or reason being the piece? It’s what art is about. You’re linking it based off your ignorance of art and your biased agenda. You’re making a claim without any details or evidence supporting “slut” behaviour. Which female hurt you dawg? Did it start with momma? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 01:11 AM |
| 0 | LTR planning on sending nudes as an art project to her fine arts lecturerThe thing with this is intention. If she’s doing this for the sake of art and expression then that’s different than doing it because she’s feeling rather flirty or promiscuous. I mean there is that underlying “here is me naked what do you think” aspect. I wouldn’t be surprise if she enjoys alittle validation from it but that’s normal and to be expected. It’s the initial intention of it that matters | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 09:26 PM |
| 14 | LTR planning on sending nudes as an art project to her fine arts lecturerThis is a weird double edge sword kind of deal. I’m an artist myself, or at least I enjoy the hobby of painting/drawing and making money from it, so I believe I have a solid insight on this. Art is very expressional; most of the time the actual imagery isn’t the purpose of the piece but rather something people can relate to. I’m not sure how suggestive her project is (suggestive, not revealing) but it’s a lose lose for you my dude. Either you reinstate your boundaries, tell her you don’t underst… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | I am beta as fuck! Just discovered this, this is my awakening.I second this, getting a pup is terrible advice. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 09:20 AM |
| 2 | I just got butthurt via text with my oneitis.. and it worked. Can anyone explain why it worked?If she sent you nudes over that, you definitely aren’t the only one getting them. Also I think you just lucked out by being her highest prospect for the time being. Guarantee anyone with a higher SMV than you shows up, this won’t be happening again. Also 1 day to respond, damn bro come on. Fill your time with better shit to do | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 07:57 AM |
| -1 | Anyone on trt?If you have to ask why not black market ANYTHING then you have little knowledge regarding purchasing anything questionable or something that is facilitated through proper quality Do you also buy shit off of Wish or whatever that shits called | /r/askTRP | 21/04/20 09:32 PM |
| 5 | This is the red pill, why don’t you even try to establish its mindset before posting here?Idk man, I just read about some dude banging his mentally unstable sister’s girlfriend and wants to know if it’s a shit test or something. Some pretty quality shit on here | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 10:35 PM |
| 3 | My ego is hurt over a chick I'm not even attracted toYou are your own harshest critic. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Is it beta to ask for help?Okay, something you have to understand which I hope you already do but for sake of discussion I’ll go into it, everything isn’t a shit test. You’ll find a lot of material about how every female is judging you and once you show weakness she’ll hop on the next cock she has in line. Bad experience stick and create a deeper impression on most of these men. And this is essential an echo chamber for all women are bad and will fuck over your life. What you have is very unfortunate but it’s something yo… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Is it beta to ask for help?All of this from an ear infection or am I comprehending incorrectly? I should really just read the post eh? Lol | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Is it beta to ask for help?If you’re asking for help because you’ve exhausted your capabilities I’m accomplishing whatever you need, then no. Nothing wrong with asking for help. If you’re asking for helping because you’re a lazy fuck that expects others to do the work for you then yes, it’s “beta” Edit: no I didn’t read your post, read the TLDR after I posted. Though what you’re asking is kind of more of a mental game. Apply what I said to everything. Girl wants to be around you. Do what you want. Don’t be a dick and get … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 06:28 AM |
| 2 | What red flags have you ignored that came to bite you in the ass?When I have a good block of free time maybe. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 02:06 AM |
| 8 | What red flags have you ignored that came to bite you in the ass?I’ve encounter them and have success with them without anything fancy. I usually wear plain fitted tees from H&M and a decent pair of jeans from express. Only watch I own is a Diver from Invicta that cost me about 60$. Spend all of that none sense is stupid and most people don’t even care or can tell the difference. Just wear shit that actually fits you and not too “loud”. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 12:58 AM |
| 7 | What red flags have you ignored that came to bite you in the ass?The one I’m with now | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 06:00 PM |
| 170 | What red flags have you ignored that came to bite you in the ass?Addicted to Social media. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Feminine men?Artist and Musicians have a path and goal. More often than not value that over everything. Women appreciate that in a man, no different than a man that does a “masculine” hobby for a living. Bisexuals/Transexuals aren’t hobbies or career paths, so it’s either just outliers or they’re frame/game is on point | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 12:16 PM |
| 6 | Is cohabitation bad in ALL situations?It’s what you make of it. You can make a pretty good situation into a complete shit show, or you can make a shitty situation into a much less shitty situation. Learn to adapt and life outside of just women will be much easier. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Do people actually see the red pill as an ideology?No girl is a unicorn. Unicorn is an idea or an outline of what you want to ver your LTR to be or whatever you want to call her. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 06:02 AM |
| 8 | Do people actually see the red pill as an ideology?Outliers. There’s outliers with anything. “AWALT”. All Women are Like This is the not same as All Women WILL do this. Though a majority here uses AWALT as any women you talk to will cheat on you asap | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 09:41 PM |
| 29 | Should I leave my LTR with a unicorn?Grass is always greener. Learn to water your own garden. People will get comfortable and change. Unicorns don’t exist, they are merely a n idea or figure to compare your prospects to. AWALT | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Bald shit tests.You aren’t operating in their frame, you’re deflecting the pressure and making them question their own character which is very uncomfortable for people. You claim frame being making them and their own thoughts or opinions irrelevant to anything of value | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 04:35 PM |
| 8 | Covid aftermathImagine needing to “pump and dump” to validate yourself being productive. Go relieve some of your angry into a sock. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 07:22 AM |
| 3 | GF is an attention whoreStay single | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 01:53 AM |
| 5 | Girl I want(ed) is fucking another guy now and “wants to stay cool with me”. What do I say back?No you want, you’ll catch feelings. You’re self sabotaging yourself by trying to justify keeping in contact with this girl. Dip out son, not a worthy investment | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 12:46 AM |
| 7 | What's the current consensus on NoFap?It’s a hard next if she request the suplex | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Was it too much AF not enough BB?I’m going through a very similar situation. My girl’s more invested into me, im emotionally unavailable etc etc. I’m assuming she’s been throwing out comfort tests and you’ve been failing, either your overthinking and trying to be uphold RP philosophy. She’s your LTR, so a lot of what you’ve been probably doing works great with plates but not in a full on relationship. It seems as you get what you want from the relationship, why wouldn’t you pay that back respectfully (without being a bitch). Sh… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 12:30 AM |
| 2 | What's the current consensus on NoFap?Damn my TB of consensual vanilla missionary with lights off porn is no use either. Every girl wants to get beat up, I can barely bench my BW 🤣 | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 12:13 AM |
| 14 | Bald shit tests.I second this, a good way to break someone’s frame is to question their attempt to shit test you. They throw a joke about you, make it serious and ask them explain. It usually ends in them realizing how bad of taste their joke is or create that awkward tension as this dude said, then you hit them with the “I’m just fucking with you, lighten up” And of course if they persist, “Ah I see okay, we’ll have a good one. Talk to ya later” then leave the situation/conversation. That’s a classic claim of … | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 12:03 AM |
| 13 | Covid aftermathFocus on what you can control. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 11:58 PM |
| 27 | Covid aftermathNaah this quarantine is lit. Forceful monk mode. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Attractive but rarely get laid“The problem is I don't talk to many, I don't know how to initiate without coming off as a jerk that only wants to fuck.” Approach more. Learn how to have a conversation. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 07:09 PM |
| 10 | LTR listening to other menEasy fix, tell your girl to stay out and tell the dude to go do it. No need to be hostil with it either. Be stoic and stern. This is a bad seed that has been embedded into the foundation of that social environment. Your friend might come off as the leader of the group but all leaders need to be tested. This goes for you and him. You’re being tested to see if you can face confrontation and have self respect. He’s being tested on whether he delegate and maintain frame. Now the question is who’s fr… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Attractive but rarely get laidYour edit is literally the answer to your question lol. More self analysis and less on this shitty forum | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Big triceps are more useful, but big biceps are almost like the male equivalent of big boobs?Bicep/Forearms assuming you’re wearing a tshirt. If you have some muscle mass and low body fat you’ll look pretty shredded with the appropriate fitted shirt Long sleeve shirt, shoulders triceps If you’re just tryna look like a massive human, wide back, big shoulders and a thick neck will get you places | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | What can u do if you are a complete loser in high school and u tried nearly everythingThen work with what you got. Still young, grow via eating + muscle mass. Still have your T levels checked. Work on growing a beard. Obviously will take time but keep diligent. Also find a mission, this will keep your focus on something that matters aside from being small? I’m currently 5’6”. Used to be 112lbs patchy beard. Couldn’t bench 90. Starting to bald at 25 Got cheated on, cool cool. Ate a lot and ate healthy. Stayed consistent with a workout plan, I’m 145 right now, bench twice my weight… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | What can u do if you are a complete loser in high school and u tried nearly everythingThat doesn’t make sense, why wouldn’t they give you more information for that? And doctors “won’t see you”? That’s easy their whole business....or has your parents decided not to | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 02:53 PM |
| 1 | What can u do if you are a complete loser in high school and u tried nearly everythingThere’s a reason why they won’t prescribe you hgh. They’re doctors, you’re a kid. Work on what you can. You seem very emotional which makes me think you’re dry stressed. So you probably have high cortisol and low T. Have your T levels checked out. And ask your doctor what’s the next move. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 02:47 PM |
| -1 | Obtaining nudesWhy do you want nudes? What do they do for you? Lmao. You’re seeking validation based on girls giving you nudes | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to tell the girl that smells down there?Uh oh, stinky | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 03:09 AM |
| -2 | Obtaining nudesWanting nudes to glorifying a girl for having girl anatomy? You’re putting girls on a pedestal, back to the sidebar for you? If not enjoy the orbit | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 03:08 AM |
| 1 | How to become a man? I was raised by a single-motherSimple but long path. Learn to be self sufficient. Own up to your own choices and actions. Learn from what benefits you and your well being. You’ll learn that women aren’t anything special and your focus will be narrowed down to a more self centered approach. In your life you matter, no one else | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 02:15 PM |
| 0 | My ltr randomly dyed her hair pink and I hate itJust tell her that you don’t like it and she’s an extension of you. If she doesn’t comply, begin to soft next | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 10:26 PM |
| 6 | What are good examples for RP/BP movies ?On Blu-ray | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Where are the mods? This sub needs to be culled.This entire subreddit is contradictory to what TRP is. This adheres to the lazy and as you said, people that flex on their own obvious achievements. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Having a dog is greatThis reminds me of the post about some dude’s dog “shit testing” him. And was linking it to the success with women | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/20 06:32 PM |
| 1 | PPD is a garbage mix of blackpill men and bluepill womenWhat? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend flaked coming over to my place after her father got mad at her for going out and she decided not to confront him. What to do now?If you aren’t sure then don’t allow it. If she’s that old living with her parents I can assume she isn’t financially stable, perhaps bad with finances, or is well a low life? Why doesn’t she have her own place? Or rent with a friend | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend flaked coming over to my place after her father got mad at her for going out and she decided not to confront him. What to do now?She’s 28 though, that’s youngest child thing shouldn’t really last that long, especially with relationships. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend flaked coming over to my place after her father got mad at her for going out and she decided not to confront him. What to do now?I’m sure you already know my and I’m sure many other community members here, don’t share your living space unless you’re prepared to marry. Back to the matter, You have either two options. 1.) Like above, Spin Plates or go monk mode, either one of those two but tell her that you can’t be wasting time or setting time aside if shit like this is going to go down. You have priorities (whatever they may be, she isn’t #1) 2.) Work through the annoyances and do you in the mean time. If she comes over t… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend flaked coming over to my place after her father got mad at her for going out and she decided not to confront him. What to do now?She’s 28, so I’m assuming you’re around the same age. Which means you are an adult. Act like one; which means be a man, have the conversation needed about your concerns. No need to baby foot around it. Lead her. If she still resists and plays this game she is doing then go spin plates. Tell her you need a break to figure things out and set your own priorities. She isn’t dumb, she knows why you’re upset, she’s just trying to manipulate you into using “I’m fine” against you. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 09:22 AM |
| 1 | How to break up with a LTR?^ this is the answer for most situations involving a break up. No need to baby the other person through. They’ll get over it, they’re an adult. If they can’t then it’s the reality check they need | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 09:18 AM |
| 5 | Girlfriend flaked coming over to my place after her father got mad at her for going out and she decided not to confront him. What to do now?Fill your time with something else? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 09:15 AM |
| 1 | What's with the zoomers saying "simp" all the time lately?It seems as RP influence in bleeding into mainstream conversations...but not really in a good way. It’s literally all just shit talk. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 04:07 AM |
| 2 | What’re the impacts of BJJ on the body?Can be. Middle ground for most martial arts. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 04:12 AM |
| 5 | What’re the impacts of BJJ on the body?A lot more than you think. Imagine the strain of 50% of your Deadlift PR but throughout the course of an hour or so | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | The one immutable principle of the Red Pill—just ONEJust focus on yourself to be a better you. That’s literally all it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | What is a simp and how do I know if I'm one?Then you’re not a simp. You’re good dude, people here are just jealous cause they cant afford to not have to justify buying shit | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 05:19 AM |
| 1 | What is a simp and how do I know if I'm one?I think the main thing here is the “why”. If it’s something you genuinely enjoy doing just to do it. I don’t see it being an issue. It’s your money, your motives. It differs, if you’re doing it to get laid or whatever then I mean yeah you’re kind of setting yourself up to be what people call now a “simp”. Do it because that’s your character, not for the bitches | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 05:12 AM |
| 1 | What is a simp and how do I know if I'm one?How often and for what occasion? What are the gifts? People like to over analyze shit to the extent of doing anything for someone else leads to being in their frame. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 12:02 AM |
| 3 | I'm in kinda a dilemmaStay with her. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Cry for Help -- life is in shamblesDm me | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Do females apply dress?With a snap of a finger 👈😎👈 | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 04:14 PM |
| 5 | What do I say when I cold approach women/girls?Literally say hi and ask relevant questions about them | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Hurt men destroying the integrity of TRPToo much larping, too much emotional salt. Boils down to get your priorities straight, do the work, and have self worth. If you aren’t genuinely pursuing those, you aren’t anywhere close to being where you should be as a man. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/20 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Finally did it - shaved my head3 points I want to make here. 1.) we don’t really care. I mean good job and following a overly preached opinion on “if balding shave clean and grow a beard”. I’m sure you probably look better now than you did before, but asking us if it suits you is like asking for validation. If you feel good and confident then fuck what we say. 2.) groom your beard. Having a well kept beard > just growing out to be burly. 3.) don’t forget to workout. Big beard, bald head with small body makes your body look sm… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/20 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Shaved My Head Due to Shitty Hairline. Should I Grow it Back or Embrace the Bald?Just workout. Just 4x a week. High volume. Eat clean as you can. Dirty bulk will just make you feel shitty in the process. Your body is small proportion to your head shape. Growing size will make it look better. Best of luck bro | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Best TRP related twitter accounts?Why are you asking who to follow on social media | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 04:48 PM |
| 26 | My son died. No will to liveAllow yourself to grieve dude. You will come out stronger. I don’t know if you have any other children but allow yourself to go through your emotions. Forget the whole “never let your partner see you cry” bullshit. I won’t lie to you, things won’t be the same and might not “get better” as some would say. But tomorrow will come. And the next day, and many more after that. Your life doesn’t stop and neither should you. So take your time to mourn your loss and begin the acceptance of it. Althea sho… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 10:46 AM |
| 1 | If a girl is more wealthy than you do you still have a chance with her?Females are reactive. If you behave as if the income difference doesn’t matter she’ll follow suit. She might shit test you but that’s where you blow it off like the whole money thing isn’t anything. If money is her highlight then you should have an easy time by just being “fun”. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 01:41 AM |
| 12 | Massive sudden increase in SMV, but can't quite adapt mentallyUsually sons without a proper male role model fall into this trap. Sons at the age of 5-8 is very crucial for their fathers to be the man they want their son to be. It prevents the son from becoming a pussy during their teenage years which is also very important. Social status at that age can mold you for the next decade. My best suggestion, find a mentor in life. Preferably one that’s successful now but has been through hardships. He’s your new father. Emulate him and find what feels natural to… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Massive sudden increase in SMV, but can't quite adapt mentallyHow is your relationship with your father? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 10:43 AM |
| 1 | How to Deal with Beta Orbiters Online?Other than the obvious; Approach face to face, not through social media. She’s talking about you to her orbiters. Which means you have some sort of value. What she says doesn’t necessarily matter until you either progress/regress with her. And honestly, good. They fee threaten. Don’t lash back, joke with them. Literally what you told us, “hey man, I’m just tryna shoot my shot, and no body seems to be blocking” These orbiters have huge bitch ass tendencies. Almost like.....females. And what do we… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 01:24 AM |
| 4 | Thoughts on steroids during college?If you do take them please be smart and take your PCT’s or you’re gonna just be a flabby emotional bitch. You know, like one of those feminist. Source: me, my friend took them, for lazy, stopped training and I can’t tell if he’s Samuel or Samantha now | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 02:24 AM |
| 4 | 4 shots drunk = liquid red pill (proove me wrong)I’m thinking he posted this after his 4 shots. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 05:52 AM |
| 1 | [18M] Ex-Girlfriend Made Fun of my Nudes to Others?Nudes = validation Why the fuck you need validation from this cunt? Nudes, dick pics, whatever you wanna do is such a bitch thing to do. Spend your time wisely, want her to see you naked? Invite her over. Want to look good naked so when you do invite her over and show the goods, workout. Take time to yourself to build yourself up so cunts like this won’t phase you | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 10:14 AM |
| 5 | Blue-balled for two hours: I'm at a lossI’ve read many times in this subreddit that “no” means “not yet” and to some degree and situations I would agree, but sometimes no just means no. Not sure if this dude thought the no was a shit test. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 08:48 AM |
| 11 | Any other black men hate black woman?Damn who hurt you nigga? | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 02:04 AM |
| 5 | Do you forgive your LTR for disrespect which occurred before you became red pilled?Because there are outliers and ways to handle said situation. If shit hits the fan, figure out why and go from there. You can’t control your girl but you can give her incentive to not fuck up. It’s all about prize mentality. If you keep your worth above hers she will follow suit. Gotta lead mate. I came to redpill because my past LTR essentially cheated on me. At first I was pissed because I thought I was solid. Came to redpill because I know I would be reassured that but after reading sidebar, … | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Do you forgive your LTR for disrespect which occurred before you became red pilled?Redpill isn’t limited to a single lifestyle. It’s a set of tools used for many things, most use it for making most of their sexual lifestyle, others use it to make better of themself. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Do you forgive your LTR for disrespect which occurred before you became red pilled?Figure out what exactly you deem acceptable. Not for the sake of ego but what are you okay with without holding it against her. Example; are you okay with your partner to go hang out with other guys. If you are then that isn’t crossing a boundary and you can’t hold that against her. However if you aren’t you must state that to her without negotiation. You can’t expect her to read your mind, however it’s common knowledge that something like that is frowned upon. But society doesn’t give a shit ab… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Is buying my mom a house a good enough 'mission'?If it’s important to you then yeah dude. Doing something for family doesn’t make you any less of a man if it’s something that you truly want to do. Just don’t sacrifice your own goals and and health for pussy or the girl you probably will have oneitis for | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I roommate with someone more Alpha?Yes absolutely Always aim higher. Use things in your everyday life to help you progress, this includes the people you closely socialize with willingly. Once you surpass him, continue to aim higher. There is no limit to what a man can be, if you can’t find the motivation within to aim for that, find people that will | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | How to stop my friends calling me by a nicknameEither 2 options I think 1.) roll with the punches. Take it in stride. Develop thick skin. 2.) Find new friends, are they helping you succeed? Are they motivating you to be better? If not then get rid of them. Be specific with your circle | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Handling Fast NutPaleo, am from Florida so primarily fish as my main source of animal proteins. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 11:27 PM |
| 0 | Handling Fast NutBoth; but my suggestion is based off of science. I suggest eating more fish and nuts. And try to keep cholesterol down, I know there is good and bad; keep the bad down. Do your own research on it so you have the knowledge. Also if you drink alcohol, minimize it or remove all together (like what’s also preached on RP subreddits). Beer enhances estrogen production, as well as many other poor diet practices. More T the better for obvious reasons. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 09:21 PM |
| -7 | Handling Fast NutPoor diet | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 08:00 PM |
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