how do I work on this. I’m a very vocal person and don’t really like to keep anything inside. I feel like it needs to get out and discussed everytime something happens.

While I feel like it’s a good thing, I also notice that it adds no mystery in my life. It’s just predictable and plain.

especially when it comes to my partners I’m intimate with. While I still don’t give a fuck and say most of what comes to mind i can’t seem to really keep somethings to myself.

for example I was on the phone with my friend and all I can think about is talking my problems out. She knows my situation but i find it very feminine where every little complication or road block I feel the need to let it out.