So far:

  • We start dating.
  • She finds out I've only done open relationships before.
  • I tell her I'll try a closed one with her.
  • Now, several months later, I decide I want to sleep around again. I realise I won't be able to handle monogamy forever and at some point will just dump her to get some sexual variety.
  • I tell her this.
  • She tells me no, she can't, the thought of me sleeping with others makes her ill. She says for the first time that loves me. Which I don't reciprocate, though I've known for awhile she's in love with me.
  • I say, OK, good chat, let's have a week to think and I'll bring it up again.

It hasn't been a week yet. Though, when I mentioned I was going to lunch with someone I find attractive, she started welling up, and I mentioned it was only platonic just in the nick of time for her to pretend she hadn't started crying.

Anyway, what's my next move.