TRP and RPW

i_forget_my_userids · 2017-09-08T18:00:34+00:00

Man this is actually the most interesting question I've seen here in a long time.

It's kind of a paradox on her having no sense of agency but being self-aware, while you're the ship's captain. It's like malicious compliance to avoid any responsibility of her actions.

She's kind of right, but being self-aware makes it wrong. It's brilliant hamstering on her part. There's a lot more nuance to these concepts than she's acknowledging. Walking away was the right thing.

This is a prime example of "a little knowledge is a dangerous thing."

vandaalen · 2017-09-08T19:09:32+00:00

LOL. Actual example that AWALT, no matter the label they give themselves.

she was trying to convince me that I was responsible for all of her actions and emotions

Yeah right. That's a really lazy way of reframing our tenet that you should be the captain in a relationship. You are responsible if it fails, absolutely yes, that does not mean that she is free from acting as a responsible adult. Are you also respnsible to teach her how to cross the street and how to eat with knife and fork? You are the captain, but she is also the first mate.

That is also not what RPW would agree with. Au contraire.

Your ex is a little bit like the retards, coming here and being to lazy to read the sidebar and deliberately understanding whatever the fuck they want in order to keep their strawmen up.

why does RPW exist

Because hamster.

if it contradicts what TRP teaches

It doesn't. See above.

Shukakun · 2017-09-08T20:30:35+00:00

I'd say this is related to the parent/child, owner/pet etc. dynamic that most relationships follow to some extent. RPW women are on the right track, but they're still women and they still want to be treated like children, in other words, have someone else being responsible for their lives.

Something that definitely opened my eyes on this thing was This: Rights and responsibility go hand in hand. Take a king for example. He has lots of rights. A harem, a huge fortune, any food he wants. But he also has lots of responsibility. He's leading a huge group of people, and if he fucks up, he's in huge trouble and will probably lose his power, or even get killed. A beggar on the street has no rights, no one does anything for him, no one listens. But he has no responsibility either, he's completely free.

So what does this have to do with RPW women? Let me put it like this:
Mainstream women: Do as I say, buy me things, don't shame me for showing off my tits to my instagram orbiters, and so on. They want all the rights and none of the responsibility. Great deal for them, terrible deal for us.

RPW women: I want to be yours, lead me. Tell me how to behave, be steadfast and ever confident and protective, and I'll be loyal. They want to have few rights and few responsibilities. A fair deal.

RP men: Things are going to happen on my terms, in my frame. If we aren't going to have sex, go fish for orbiters somewhere else. I'm definitely not going to spend significant money on you, and you're rarely if ever going to wake up in my bed. We want all the rights and little to no responsibility. Great deal for us, bad (long term) deal for them.

Basically, what we're doing is the male version of modern female behavior. We're just more focused on them giving us pussy, whereas they're more focused on us giving them money, gifts and social status.

If you're going to have an LTR, you're gonna have to treat her like she's your daughter. Raise her, make her know that you're always the person to go to, the one who knows what to do and what to say. RPW women can be a burden, but that's the deal with commitment.

I don't know about the whole commitment thing though, I'd rather become someone who's happy on his own, who won't be miserable when he's 40 and single. Seems more fun to hang out with women on your terms and end things when the terms become unacceptable to you. If you're going to shoulder the responsibility for her entire life, the least you should demand is her being faithful and making you happy indefinitely (traditional marriage), but as we all know, attraction can't be negotiated. Divorce does happen, and miserable toxic unhappy long-lasting relationships happen a lot too. So, if you're not getting absolute rights, why take absolute responsibility? Never commit, at least not entirely. Always be aware that you might be single next week, and that's okay.

hatefulreason · 2017-09-08T19:43:10+00:00

she read 10 posts on RPW and you read 10 posts on TRP and now you're both RP af and still can't handle your shit ? wonder why...

TheRealMewt · 2017-09-08T18:57:20+00:00

The thing though is that RPW doesn't go hand in hand with TRP 100%. We want to employ the best sexual strategy that works for our lives. So do women when they read RPW. If what they learn is detrimental to your sexual goals, she needs to hit the bricks. Same as any other blue pilled woman.

sorry_mommy · 2017-09-08T21:13:55+00:00

RPW and TRP do not go hand in hand. I asked this question over there once. Basically RPW advocates that women look out for their own self interests, which are not in the interest of us men. They are very interested in landing a good stable man to have babies with.

ScottDurden · 2017-09-08T22:04:22+00:00

What exactly is RPW?

Big_Daddy_PDX · 2017-09-09T00:56:15+00:00

First of all RPW isn't at all like your LTR was acting. Second, in an LTR, there are times when your goals have to coincide; otherwise why be in that LTR?

highdingo · 2017-09-09T04:57:06+00:00

What's RPW?

mrHappyPotatoe · 2017-09-09T22:48:14+00:00

RPW seem like feminists on steroids but smae time trying to hide it.

Bear-With-Bit · 2017-09-08T19:23:09+00:00

selfish with my goals in life

Here's where her hamster kicks in. RP for women can't really exist. The RPW sub itself caved in because iirc poor leadership and hamstering from mods -- if true, so much irony.

Goals are inherently selfish, even if it's wanting kids and a family life. She can't see that because her own feminine nature/ego demands you to Daddy her up and lead her to survive and pass her genes on. In fact, it's a woman ego and sheet lack of self agency that usually deters her from understanding and exercising RP.

Title	TRP and RPW
Author	7mil
Upvotes	9
Comments	19
Date	September 8, 2017 5:42 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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