TRP making me miserable. How about you?

Straightfromthemudd · 2018-06-27T02:08:43+00:00

Dude, theres no problem with you needing to take a break from chasing women and work on yourself. In fact, I encourage it. Women will always be there, but time on this earth is limited. Reaching your goals is and will always be, more important than chasing women.

agent_of_chaos90 · 2018-06-27T02:10:40+00:00

World tells you you need to be successful at something or you suck -> you obsess -> you don't succeed -> self esteem takes a hit.
Happened to me, too.
Slowly peeling back the onion on some of the ideas, like "a man is defined by his relation to women" and all that shit. Fuck the noise, take your time, recover, revitalise, and come back in when you think it's best. I trust you to not hamster this away.

contributive-citizen · 2018-06-27T02:23:40+00:00

TRP advises not working on game or gaming women until you have built yourself up. This is what monk mode is for. You're doing it right my man. If you want to be able to dread, command respect, or reduce your amount of shit tests, it's better to look the part.

This sounds like the anger phase to me.

TrenGod37 · 2018-06-27T03:54:26+00:00

Usually means you spend too much time on here. Take your knowledge and go have fun

Caspero444 · 2018-06-27T03:04:12+00:00

I think trp is a reaction to a more complex and alienating dating environment. I don't think trp is causing any of the alienation. The culture of dating is changing rapidly and people come on here to talk about it. The thing causing the alienation is not a discussion forum but real world situations. We go on dates with women who have anywhere from fifty to a thousand potential suitors on their phones at all times.

Wrath_of_Trump · 2018-06-27T03:07:33+00:00

You can do both. You are just coming from a wrong angle that a lot of "PUA" people get stuck in early on. They read read read, think think think, and it doesn't really do them much good. I tell people to forget everything they read, just say to yourself "it doesn't matter anymore" and exhale. Get a fresh start where you simply are interested in making the best of your time, and if she comes along, you'll know what to do.

Pluglord · 2018-06-27T03:28:50+00:00

TRP is a toolbox, not a religion, so no, TRP isn't making you miserable, it's you making your own life miserable.

cobalt1728 · 2018-06-27T05:06:02+00:00

You are not in redpill mode. You are MGTOW.

RedLegendx · 2018-06-27T05:48:44+00:00

It did in the beginning, now that I actually started to focus on my purpose and where I’m headed it passed, it will too for you.

abudun79 · 2018-06-27T06:19:13+00:00

You have to separate red pill knowledge and questions and articles here.

The former enables you to see things through a different lense and judge behavior differently than you used to. But you have to make sense of everything for yourself. You will make experience failures but if you stick to it you will succeed and can maintain a positive attitude about your life.

And the latter will present you with a lot of negative experience and stories feeding the common narratives as extremely as possible. Happy people seldom complain or shout out their satisfaction around here. This has potential to make you feel more miserable than neccessary, because you identify too much with others opinions and experience.

If you want to thrive, change your idea from "migrating to MGTOW" to "18idlwk1920dc going no asktrp and no TRP" for some months, read the sidebar, understand the sidebar and start experimenting with what you learned from the sidebar.

imtheoneimmortal · 2018-06-27T08:33:41+00:00

Actually to me TRP just helped to don't pedestale pursue be obsessive with women, they just add value to me and life is about me and job and study and friends and travels and milion things. I'm more happy and idgaf than before (even before i was kinda like this).
Some mechanism of rp i was aware and i don't get shocked when i read here so i'm flexible, i say ok is nature that works like that and is beautiful

ht2k9 · 2018-06-27T09:10:41+00:00

Date her friends, pick up other girls when she is around and it will show the truth.

Morphs_ · 2018-06-27T23:05:50+00:00

Last year I was in a toxic relationship and reading on TRP was a hurtful mindfuck. I had to stop reading because of the internal clashes it gave me.

Of course the LTR ended and I started to read TRP again. This time while not in an LTR it was much better to read. At first I still found the truth presented here rather harsh, but it's getting better and easier.

Title	TRP making me miserable. How about you?
Author	18idlwk1920dc
Upvotes	6
Comments	18
Date	June 27, 2018 1:47 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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