i made a post here before talking about me trying to get a chick back after i dumped her. just as redpillers said it would, it failed. nbd.

i couldnt get her to hang out for the longest so i went on and did my own thing. lifting, not eating trash, working on a certification. i slept with a random chick and my roommate was assuming he was hearing my ex in the other room, and basically told a mutual friend that my ex spent the night when she didnt. so shes caught wind. shes asked me to hangout a couple times 1 on 1 since then, and she even recently commented that i used to have a dad body when i was her but now im waaay more fit. theres a party coming up that we both will be at, and im going to look for an opportunity to pull her to the side and escalate. any tips/tricks/words/experiences that might help? i feel like making a strong move will melt her.