Hey guys,

From time to time i get this pseudo oneities for a girl i just went on a couple dates with. After i found the red pill i didnt think it would happen again.

So i have a pretty busy life with work, gym, my side hustle and am trying to get some plates, been going on dates with 4/5 girls in the last month (havent smashed tho, still working on my game), and have some prospects in line.

The problems is that i have pseudo oneities for one of these girls. She isnt anything special (She isnt hotter than the other girls, neither is she funnier, there is no exceptionnel feature on her), but i catch myself mood swinging based on the way she reacts to me, thinking on how shes going to react to my texts and being less smooth in person (cant have outcome indépendance), and all of these are big no no's to me.

Im fully aware of all this behaviour, and try to have the mindset of holding frame, that bitches aint shit, that i dont care if i lose her, that my purpose is what is important (and this works with the other girls, but not this One).

I know nothing good comes out of this, she has suggested a little beach date, but i dont like going out with a girl with this fucking oneitis, and i know that even if things go well i will be subconsciously afraid of losing her.

Ive had this happen in the past (i was still blue pilled af, so i wasnt aware of half the shit, so i got emotionally wrecked) but i still told myself that if i ever get this type of crush for a girl, the best decision is to just move on, so thats what im planning on doing with this girl, hard next.

Idk if this isnt a bit confusing, but have any of you guys have this type of shit happen? And how do you deal with it? Do you think nexting is the best option?

Thanks guys