Original post here: http://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2gp44n/watching_it_all_crumble_not_sure_what_i_am_even/

So it's been over a month, and we've filed divorce paperwork. Wife and I worked out the details of spousal support/settlement, and she's moved out. I've been casually seeing my 'not girlfriend' since then and have also been browsing OKC, POF, and Tinder. I've also reduced my workload and begun to focus on simplifying my life. This has made my stress levels drop, and I'm much happier as a result.

Last night, I went on my first real internet date (went on one with a girl I knew I wasn't attracted to earlier just to get my feet wet). We hit it off well and made out a bunch at the place we met and a bar we went to afterward. Things got very hot and steamy in the parking lot of the bar when we went to leave when the bar closed (we were just standing next to my car and going at it pretty wild). I then drove her to her car and we talked for a bit in my car, she was shit testing left and right all night, and I am pretty confident that I smashed her tests.

So we make out a bit again after she kind of makes fun of me and pretends to not be into me at all, a shit test I responded to by agreeing about how hideous I am and adding that I'm also a lot of trouble. Anime eyes from her the whole time. I can tell she doesn't want to leave my car, so eventually, I say "Alright, get out of here. I have work in the morning." (It was 3am by this point.) She grabs me and starts making out again, really passionately. She leaves and makes it purposefully awkward, something she's been doing all night (part of her sense of humor I think).

So... this is our text conversation today:

10:45 AM Me: Hope you got home safe. I had a horrible time last night. So it's a good thing you think I'm so repulsive. ((this is a callback to some of our makeout banter from the night before))

11:11 AM Her: Oh... Uhh... Wow... See I didn't think you were going to embarrass yourself by actually texting me so... Uh, wow this is... Uhhh awkward

11:41 AM Me: Um. OK. Well... I... uhhh... I hadn't considered how absolutley humiliating texting you would be. It would be a really bad idea to offer to make you dinner Friday night then, wouldn't it?

11:58 AM Her: Uh yeah... Not only because I'm repulsed by you but also because I work til midnight that night so uh yeah

12:29 PM Me: This is the part where you offer an alternative day or time

12:54 PM Her: Oh I kind of felt that never was implied...

1:11 PM Me: It wasn't implied. I explicitly stated it.

1:24 PM Her: ;)

So I haven't said anything back yet. Mostly because I've been working (and then making this post, haha).

I'm really not sure how to approach this. I am 99% sure she's just fucking with me/shit testing me because she really likes me. But I also don't want to fuck up these shit tests. I'm so used to LTR shit testing that this text game shit is so foreign.

What Do?