UPDATE: went_no_contact_with_a_girl_i_was_dating_because/

notmyusualreddit · 2016-03-01T11:09:32+00:00

My top rated comment on reddit, GENERAL reddit not even TRP, is how my exgf of 3 years left me 17 days of sobbing voice mails days after day when we broke up. Never missed a day. Usually there was more than 1 a day.

Later I found out she fucked her previous exbf on day 5 and 12 of those voicemail. I found this out when she showed up on my doorstep the 18th day and I let her in and we fucked to makeup. During it she said 'our sex is the best sex'. 2 hours of trickle truth later she admit it.

A woman's tears mean nothing. Her wanting to have sex with you mean nothing.

Those things are for her. Not for you. She's crying for what she's afraid of losing that you give her. Not for actually you.

stickfiguresk · 2016-03-01T07:06:50+00:00

And what did you learn?

prostaddict · 2016-03-01T13:44:04+00:00

Don't. I went through the exact same scenario a few months ago. If you do go back with her, the second you drop frame - she'll instantly revert back to her personality state of when she broke up with you. Too much damage and baggage. Would you really want to get back with a girl who proved she's willing to branch swing off you?

FrameWalker · 2016-03-01T14:36:14+00:00

Would you tolerate thus level of bullshit drama from a Plate? Next

1NV0K3R · 2016-03-01T15:09:12+00:00

Welcome to the club man.

You'll soon realize that all women are the same, just from a different mold. I don't mean AWALT or shit (though this is true), but I mean in terms of personality and likewise.

Love is just a construct. Tolerance is what you have to strive for (sadly).

Don't hate yourself. Just see the world for what it is and move along. It hasn't changed, only you have, and for the better.

mksu · 2016-03-01T21:39:33+00:00

Looking through your old thread and the comments, you don't really want to follow any advice. Why do you bother posting? This is not the place for your diary.

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-03-01T22:52:28+00:00

Quit your wailing man. Plate her until she bounces and look for new girls in the meantime. Don't you dare feeling guilty for this- you now know what she would have done in your place.

RedAsBlood · 2016-03-02T18:45:17+00:00

She is attempting to emotionally manipulate you.

Hard next and don't look back.

Title	UPDATE: went_no_contact_with_a_girl_i_was_dating_because/
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Upvotes	7
Comments	18
Date	March 1, 2016 6:53 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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