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[–]Futuretrophyhusb 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Start dating. Don't worry about sex, just start meeting up with these girls for coffee, walks, or w/e. After a few dates(with different girls), you'll realize it's not a big deal. Keep your game tight, and sex will eventually progress. Your 18. Being a virgin is not a big deal, no need to rush it.
[–]BloodfuryTD1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn't even know how to go about it, i rarely even hang out with friends. Fuck me, i know i should just ask some1 out and see what happens...
[–]JordanVanBravo 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You gotta build an Abundance Mentality man. Stop worrying so much about the sex part - usually when you're looking and hungry for sex, it shows and is seen as a turn off. Instead just focus on improving your social skills, hanging out with these girls and seeing where you rank to each other on the Lust Ladder. If you're low, move on as you clearly have options and it's hard to break a first impression of not being interested in you.
Once you start to notice genuine interest, then push the envelop a bit further, see how far you can go in small increments while not going too far. Eventually the playful kino leads to intense sex, and then congratulations: You have your first plate.
Well, depending on how you do it anyway. Don't be creepy or weird about it, but seeing that you know of TRP you likely know all of this already.
[–]BloodfuryTD0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I like this. What's your opinion on faking it? I actually think i would be very good at dating, since i'm an excellent actor. And i'm pretty charicsmatic in 1 on 1 conversations.
I recall a situation where i met a girl i havent seen for 2 years or so. I approached her and chatted her up. It went pretty smooth. But the anxiety in the back of my head, made me feel so uncomfortable, i lost my appetite for like an hour after. I can't imagine getting hard while faking it either. Maybe it's just because i believe i'm faking it, but it's actually just another side of me.
Maybe i should continue doing this thing until the anxiety goes away?
Well i sure got my thoughts on paper there.
[–]JordanVanBravo 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What's your opinion on faking it? I actually think i would be very good at dating, since i'm an excellent actor. And i'm pretty charicsmatic in 1 on 1 conversations.
Depends on your intentions. Though this can work in situations where you just want to have sex with her, for a relationship this'll get harder and harder as time goes on.
That's how you develop abundance mentality, a good way would be to practice going up and talking to women with the intention of getting rejected in your head (although that doesn't mean say stupid or outlandish shit, just don't put the world into your words) so that you get used to the feeling and it doesn't mean anything to you when it does happen.
[–]Futuretrophyhusb 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This is exactly why you need to do it. Make small talk--ask questions, make jokes, tease. The ONLY way move forward is to get out there and do it. You'll get rejected some probably, but that's simply progress as you move forward. Bang by Roosh offers good dating advice, but waiting to read it is not an excuse to not put yourself out there.
But seriously, you've got 250 matches. Man up and go out. Quit sitting behind a keyboard acting like a victim. Don't look to weed or alcohol To solve your problems.
[–]BloodfuryTD0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You're right.
I wouldn't say i'm acting like a victim though. Just looking for advice from the big boys.
[–]Futuretrophyhusb 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Didn't mean to imply that. It's just easy for people to fall into that loop, and than use it as an excuse to avoid action.
[–]BloodfuryTD0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, i'm totally over that after i discovered trp.
[–]Boovs4life0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Either you're very good looking or ripped but how do you have that many matches and how long did it take for you to get all those matches? I consider myself fairly attractive im 6 feet tall, not ripped but still have a nice body, and ive only gotten 4 matches the past month. What kinds of pics do you upload? And bio?
I've had tinder for like 2 months. First pic is a shirtless pic with snow and mountains in the background. It's like a year old picture and i was really skinny. Seems girls just like abs though.
In the second pic i'm spraypainting with a bandana thingy over my face.
Third pic is me hugging a handsome statue.
In the 4th pic i'm fishing with a bamboo stick in Thailand
Most of my matches is from before i turned 18 which is no suprise since girls like older guys.
My bio is blank.
Also i'm probably like a 6 or 7/10 in pure genetics.
4 Matches doesnt seem right though. Are you extremely picky? I swipe like 7/10 right.
[–]Boovs4life0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I swipe for 7s and above. I'm not saying I'm the most good looking guy that deserves the best looking girls but for some reason in my area there's a huge volume of fat black chicks and wannabe emo feminists that dye their hair green and have that hideous cow piercing at the end of their noses. There aren't many cute or even semi cute chicks so i guess that could be one of the reasons.
[–]Josewasframed1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Start small. You aim for sex right away, but your post reeks of insecurity. So my advice is start small with them. Go for sex if you can get it and want it, sure. But start small by just getting the girls phone numbers off of Tinder. Then invite them out somewhere to hang or do something. Then escalate. Then go for sex. Step.By Step. By step.
[–]jeezydasnowman0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Smoke some good bud
[–]Endorsed Contributorstickfiguresk0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Read BANG and DAY BANG. They thoroughly go step by step in how a man would get laid.
[–]a_nus1 point 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Matching with someone on Tinder is far from hooking up btw.
Get out there and talk to people. Anyone. Go to a show, or the store, and talk to the people in line. The cashier. Anyone. Practice and exposure are the only way to overcome this. And it'll take time. There's no "trick" (excluding alcohol or other drugs) to make this go away.
[–]abdada-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
Hit the gym and push weights and get a T boost from it and get horny enough to overcome anxiety.
[–]BloodfuryTD1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I've been lifting for almost 2 years, and have a pretty nice body. Maybe mastubaiting is one of my problems?
[–]abdada-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Probably. NoFap has its followed and detractors but I'd suggest a two week break.
I don't generally fap anyway. I have women for that situation. So much more relaxing, too.
[–]BloodfuryTD2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I tried stopping so many times, but i allways relapse after 4 or 5 days. Just gonna try again though
[–]abdada-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like an addiction and that's likely holding you back.
[–]BloodfuryTD-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah i think it is. If i wasn't alone in front of my pc all the time though, it wouldn't be so damn hard.
[–]abdada0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Get rid of your PC for two weeks.
[–]BloodfuryTD1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
U know, i've actually thought about it. I think it will be like going through hell. Going through hell is pretty badass though
[–]abdada0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I own nothing in my life that I can't walk away from for 2 weeks. Things, behaviors, activities.
[–]Zunscriii0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fapping isn't your problem unless you fap mutiple times a day + porn.
[–]askerman97 -2 points-1 points0 points 10 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Or just smoke weed.
[–]abdada1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Yeah getting addicted to liquor or drugs to overcome anxiety isn't something I've ever done.
I'd rather push my body harder in healthy ways.
[–]askerman97 -2 points-1 points0 points 10 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Lol, weed isn't a real drug. Besides, you can lift and still have weed.
[–]LockedOnTheRedPill3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I've seen too many peoples's lives get messed up on weed. They turn into non-motivated slobs usually. Weed is a total deal breaker for me when looking for a LTR, automatically degraded to a plate if not just nexted
[–]JimFury1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed I don't care how many studies show up on TIL or world news. I've experienced it first hand and I've seen my friends become unmotivated and lazy. You think shits fine when it's really not. Don't get into marijuana.
[–]abdada1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I've watched 3 decent friends in 20 years get weed rage trying to detox. Also dumped a plate over it because she raged when trying to quit.
Weed is fine if you're 70 years old or dealing with cancer but it's such a wasteful drug for young dudes.
Yeah i'm not gonna get in to weed. I would like to try the infamous lsd trip all you redditors talk so much about though.
[–]askerman97 -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you have anxiety then weed is a proven solution to lowering symptoms.
[–]BloodfuryTD1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
did it help you? I see you made a post a little bit similiar to mine
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