Ways to improve text game?

mrbasic- · 2019-03-10T16:47:57+00:00

In my opinion, you have to build some type of rapport, especially before the first date/meetup.

One of my goals when gaming is to make the girl feel comfortable or at least safe. I'm 6'4, ~245lb, and African American; I can come off as lowkey intimidating. With that being said, I text outside of logistics to build some type of rapport, but with the following rules:

Text when you can. I think getting a text while doing nothing and then waiting hours to reply is dumb. If you're lounging around and get a text, reply, but you should be constantly doing something (lifting, studying, in class, work, etc.) to where you're genuinely unable to reply until hours later.
Reply/carry the conversation if it's relevant. If you guys are having an interesting conversation, don't just drop her, but if you're feeling the conversation is dying or getting dull, it's ok to leave her on read.
KISS: Keep It Simple, Stupid. Pleeeeease don't send multiple paragraphs or be verbose. Do your best to keep it succinct. If you really have to tell a long ass story, try to lead it into a call/FaceTime or say "I'll tell you when we meet up later"

Hope this helps, my guy.

Terdmuffin · 2019-03-10T18:06:59+00:00

It depends on if you've meet this person irl or if it's from a dating app. If you've never met the person you need to build some rapport. Establish common interests, Show that you're a stable individual.... You need to convince her you're a regular person and not some psychopathic murderer/rapist because Even though the 1 in 3 rape rates seem overstated this is a real concern for women. They aren't gonna just meet some random dude most of the time.

Once you've established some comfort and actually met the girl then you can back off texting.

lifeisweirdasfuck · 2019-03-10T18:50:28+00:00

Ways to improve "text game"?

Text with no emotions.

No laughs, no emoticons, no exclamation/question marks and you are ahead of 99% of the guys.

And stop with this text game bullshit, there's no game in texting. Only logistics. I wonder how rich is the guy who has spread this pua bs.

You create attraction in real life, not behind a screen through some PUA canned phrases lmao.

xNinja36 · 2019-03-10T21:34:38+00:00

Online dating: Text a bit just to get her comfortable enough to meet, so she knows you arent a psychopath. Text for logistic after first meet.

Cold Approach: I'd do some light texting on the initial text after getting her number, than ask her to meet and keep it to logistics after that.

DerpJungler · 2019-03-10T21:52:49+00:00

Sending some pics like for example, she asks "what r u up to?" and u reply with a picture of a book, the gym, maybe a weird selfie if you're feeling it.

Try and be unique. When texting, i usually think "what would a beta do?" and I avoid that. Keeping a conversation flowing by telling a smart joke, asking something unique/weird that doesnt make her feel uncomfortable to spike her interest.

Also, keep it simple. It's hard to express feelings and allow the other person to know what you're thinking and where you're basing your words.

So keep it simple, interesting, smart and unique, with a pinch of humor. And DON'T spam emojis.

Guaccamolepepe · 2019-03-10T16:27:34+00:00

Try stuff and see what works.

As you mentioned all girls are different, yet some things work on most girls.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-03-11T04:17:37+00:00

Text less

tikitheman · 2019-03-10T16:16:13+00:00

Gifs and memes. Done right they make chicks have to think and you can drop a lot of inuendo and they make teasing easier.

Try it for yourself.

Kingali19 · 2019-03-10T16:49:23+00:00

I swear I don’t get people. They think they’ve taken the RP. It works but after a little bit of success they think they’re the exception to the RP rules.

Title	Ways to improve text game?
Author	thetrpdino
Upvotes	8
Comments	15
Date	March 10, 2019 4:03 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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