At the past I posted on some subreddits questions regarding my situation and things I do right and wrong, I got some good tips.

Basically I was looking to add a lot more kino and overall flirting in my dates with girls. Got some good sources to read from, and tips in the comments.

I still lack something, which is a total pain in the ass for me.

I dates two girls, with both (even though applying and getting good reactions, teasing back a little bit, being touchy...) things ended after the first date on their part.

One girl I met online, and the one I met yesterday through a mututal friend. After the date (which I really enjoyed, cool girl, and I thought it's mutual), I woke up to a message which I'll try to translate as best as I can:

"I had so much fun! It was really funny and outgoing. But something bothered me and I was thinking about it as I got back home, and I'm allowing myself to say it straightforward, it felt more friendly and less romantic. It's not that you did anything wrong, It's just the fact that I don't think you're my type. It's a real bummer because I had a lot of fun. I'm hope you're fine with my honesty, I don't want to play games with people."

Fuck. What the hell do I miss? I'm trying to read between the lines, and the date was good and fun, she was touchy (as well as the first girl) and flitry, and then she comes out with that, the friendly / romantic thing has been driving me nuts.

What should I go about it? How can I improve? What the "right" way of going on a first date?

I'm happy I manage to get first dates now with this pandemic, but I don't seem to get through it ATM. Something is blocked.

Thanks guys!