I don’t have the fortitude to approach and polarize unqualified prospects. Sure my prospect list (women) decreases dramatically if I’m not prospecting but it doesn’t matter to me. Shame me if you must.

What id like to understand is what are some clear HELL YES interest signals. I get a lot of IOIs such as smiles, long answers to questions and laughs even if I said a stupid joke. But these may not mean she’s all in, could simple mean she’s willing to let me take her out which I have no desire to do unless it’s for a coffee or ONE drink.

What are some clear signs after the approach that she’s totally into you. Could be your looks, swagger, whatever. Just want to get better at identifying solid opportunities (low hanging fruit)?