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What can I learn from this?

Melodramati
August 12, 2013
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Title What can I learn from this?
Author

Melodramati
Upvotes 0
Comments 9
Date August 12, 2013 4:53 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/1k7shi/what_can_i_learn_from_this/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/what-can-i-learn-from-this.196562
https://theredarchive.com/post/196562
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Comments

[–]ubershoop2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Say "thank you for the pleasant evening" and point her to the door or say you think she should leave.

If she was EVER going to fuck you, that would have been the time (you asking her to leave), if no then, then it would never happen.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

This.

If she wanted to have sex with you, you would've gotten laid. She has other priorities. That, or she wanted a beta orbiter. She needs to feed the betas with attention to keep them around. So her thinking was "Maybe I'll make out with him and touch his dick, then he'll be hounding for my attention to go further." She won't ever give it to you. Show her that you're not some pawn in her self-centered little game.

Spin plates, move on.

[–]Melodramati[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I moved on as soon as she left my doorstep. I won't try and contact her for the next month. But when time comes around I might contact her and say: "Wine at my place, episode 2?" and state that it will only happen if she can go with a good conscience this time.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I won't try to contact her ever again.

FTFY

DON'T GO AFTER HER. HAVE HER GO AFTER YOU.

[–]Melodramati[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You're right.

Some of my friends are like that. In some way, most of my friends I hang out with are quite red pill in there behavior, they can also get laid when they want to and have no problem being selfish and moving on.

I will let her do all the work, if she wanna fuck me; fine! But if not, I'll probably have another possibility in less than a few weeks.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

At this point, unless you REALLY need to have sex with ONLY HER (if you have some sort of dick-poison and the only cure is in her vagina), don't have sex with her. Just go for the other females that are out there. Dick rubbing is an act of foreplay, as in it comes beFORE something else (sex). And she stopped there to think about this other guy. She had her shot and she wasted it. You're too high-class to deal with the "I-don't-know-who-I-want" bullshit.

Count your blessings, though, because you have a reason. I had this one girl where she was grinding on me, her tits in my mouth, and she suddenly stops, puts her clothes back on, and browses Netflix on my Xbox. No explanation why.

[–]Melodramati[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

But she WANTED to fuck me, she just had such bad a conscience that she couldn't bring herself to do it.

But I guess that you are right, next time I'll be more harsh.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Conscience? You give her more credit than she's worth. Only thing close to conscience in a woman is probably maternal instinct. Other than that and you have a hamster. And you didn't feed her's enough.

[–]Melodramati[S] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Man, you're making me feel some kind of premature enlightenment. I should have put the responsibility on myself to feed her hamster with her own bullshit instead of listening to it.

Considering this in retrospect she might even have given me some subtle hints to do that, as she said twice "Maybe I'm just thinking too much about this".

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