What did I do wrong

yes_we_can_t · 2017-09-30T02:23:51+00:00

Oh, that's some classic butthurt game. Good luck with that.

If she replies again, I'd casually invite her to join some activity I would be doing anyway, but she's likely to flake. Any good emotions she had from the initial interaction are long gone.

When a girl stops responding and replies a long time after, just pretend she replied immediately and pick up the thread from there. Keep it low investment and focus on meeting up. Trying to create attraction over text is a waste of time, imho.

1Pink1Stink · 2017-09-30T01:20:43+00:00

Shouldn't have been salty and said hey back. Pussy boy

mushroom_overlord · 2017-09-30T05:58:22+00:00

She's an 8, so she has access to instant dick whenever she wants if she's using Tinder. Therefore, she was getting other dick the week she got no response, then she didn't have any or wanted another when she texted you, then the response came too late after she got some other dick. If she responds later you're back in the game, but its an 8+ so she can always line up more.

The answer is don't think about it, better luck next time unless she responds. However, next time I would not do the "who's this" if you actually know the number. Remember the instant-dick effect, if she can get a different guy with the snap of her fingers why would she play games with you over text?

honorocagan · 2017-09-30T01:40:40+00:00

Focus on the next one.

supermanlarry · 2017-09-30T02:11:05+00:00

I used to go for their number on tinder too and most of the time we didn't even meet up. Lately, I've just been setting up the dates thru tinder and I find it much more successful. Give it a try.

5pecial · 2017-09-30T02:33:38+00:00

don't worry about it. she just wanted some attention, but wouldn't ever put in the effort to meet up

Title	What did I do wrong
Author	throwawayyyyy585757
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	September 30, 2017 12:49 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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