Met this HBD 8/10 girl at a kickback I threw at my place. We really connected and talked a lot. I tried to see if I could go all the way.

After awhile talking I asked her if she can help me find my charger in my room cause I lost it. She was down and went with me. I tried to escalate with her and told her I wanted to get away from all the music and wanted to talk where it’s quieter.

She said that’s cool, but my room has like a shit ton of animals in it (due to certain circumstances), and she was freaked out by them. We walked back to the kickback and we went outside for a smoke. I took her to a nice spot around my place to talk.

I did a lot of kino, asked her if she’s a good kisser, escalate as much as I could in a place like that. She wouldn’t kiss me or let me really escalate. I brought the topic to cars and fast cars and if she ever rode in a car like mine. I needed up getting her in my car chilling vibing to music.

I took her to this really dark place behind a Walmart to see if she would feel more comfortable having sex here. I needed up escalating a lot at this spot. I told her we should talk in the back of the car because there’s more space. She was down. I made out with her a ton, grabbed her ass, boobs, etc. I tried to take off her jacket while making out and she just giggled. I tried to take her weird skirt pants thing off but didn’t know how. I told her to help me and she said nope lol.

Then after still making out for awhile I moved her hands slowly inside my pants and she said, “I know what you’re doing”. And just giggled again. Total failure. We back to the front sit and drive back to my place. Everyone left out and we were just on the couch. I almost convinced her to chill in my room but she said she really doesn’t like the animals. I tried to escalate on the couch too but we didn’t make it pass making out. And she asked me to take her home.

I drove her home holding her hands the whole time and kept trying to escalate lol. I told her I really had to use the bathroom and let me use yours. She knew what I was doing and didn’t let me in. We kissed goodbye and she went inside her home.

I’m just here now thinking what could I have done different? Would I of had better success if I got her to stay in my room? Or was this girl not gonna have sex the first time she meets someone no matter what?