Went out to the bars yesterday for the first time with my Red Pill knowledge, after about three months of Monk Mode. I ended up taking to this HB9 and I thought things were going well. I actually didn't approach her, some random drunk dude thought I was cool and introduced me to the girl, who was a random at the time. We talked briefly, lots of eye contact and IOIs. I have to admit, I did buy her a drink after some talking (I realized I actually sort of liked her because she was hot and wasn't a sorority girl). Everywhere I lead her, I grabbed her by the hand and eventually isolated her just so we could talk. I was sort of shocked she wasn't in a sorority, so I did compliment her on her beauty a few too many times towards the end of our conversation.

I kept up the "sarcastic asshole" routine, and let me tell you: this shit actually works in the sense that it keeps girls around and interested. Just a side note: I had a couple girls straight up walk away from me angry as hell, and I feel like I'm absolutely going to lose the friends I currently have because they're not sure why I'm being such a dick to girls. lol. Anyways, at one point I asked if I could kiss her (sort of cringing at this right now, I should never ask, right?) and she said she wasn't into PDA. She then asked for my number, and we continued talking for a bit. She told me she was into cars, so I offered to show her mine but she declined saying she didn't want to leave her friends at the bar. Eventually she said her friend needed help in the bathroom (I did meet the friend briefly), and after not seeing her for a while, I just left the bar because it was getting late.

Now that I'm writing this all out, it's all beginning to feel like a hard curve. I feel like I was pretty solid at the beginning of the conversation, but shit started to go south towards the end. I feel like it was the beta in me coming back at the end. At one point, I told her she was cute, she said I was "charming."

I'd love to get some feedback on this and maybe some tips and pointers. More importantly, what do I do in the situation where she says she's not into PDA and doesn't want to leave her friends. Did I royally fail shit tests when I agreed with her to stay and not go in for the kiss?

Update: She texted me this morning basically saying I was acting like an asshole to her and disrespecting her. In her defense, I think I took it too far. I'm still learning the difference between Alpha Asshole and Asshole and I definitely crossed the line. I was yelling direct insults to her face for absolutely no reason. That's not alpha, that just screams insecure. I just replied saying I didn't meant to come off that way. She then said she had a boyfriend. I replied "Lol."

I have to say, this is my first time really seeing girls so shitty like this. I’ve never EVER tried to polarize before, always playing it safe until last night. I’m inclined to believe she actually has a boyfriend because why lie at this point? She wasted my money on her drink, manipulated me, but more importantly wasted my time. I’m just glad I found this place. Thank you for the answers so far, I’m going to keep working at it.