About six months ago I was making advances on a girl I knew from school. I had just recently gotten out of a two year relationship so my game was a little rusty and I was a bit desperate. Long story short I asked her to chill and she put me in the friend zone. I proceeded to cut her off and spent the past six months improving myself and building a solid rotation. A few weeks ago she took notice to the new me and hit me up (in a very flirtatious manner) and asked me to hang out. She said that she wouldn’t be available for 2-3 weeks and that she would hit me up when she’s free. It’s been almost three weeks and I know that she’s been going out again because I’ve seen through social media. I’m starting to doubt whether or not she’s going to follow up with me and I have the urge to reach out. But I feel that by doing so I would project myself as a low value male who is uncertain. Should I take initiative and take control of the situation or just let it play out?