What do you suggest here?

SappedOfCreativity · 2017-10-04T00:10:28+00:00

Well now that you've deleted her number and her text log, you have a 100% chance of not going on the date. If a girl doesn't reply to one of my messages, then it's good indicator of disinterest. I know not to waste my time on someone so superficial (as in your case) so she's actually done you a favour.

I suggest you avoid Tinder like the plague, at least until your SMV is so high that women don't think twice about your height. Think of Bruno Mars: do you think the girl you are messaging would turn him down because he's 5' 5"? Obviously you're not a celebrity, but there's no reason why you can't aspire to build the best life for yourself that will draw women in rather than pursuing them and seeming desperate.

failingtheturingtest · 2017-10-04T01:18:55+00:00

There's a lot of chit-chat here about the irrelevant part.

You had a date set up. You asked a boring question and she didn't rush to answer. You panicked and assumed she's lost interest because of your height.

You ask about her day when you see her. You have a date set up to get to know each other. Your texting is done.

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WISE_TURD · 2017-10-04T00:25:39+00:00

As a general rule, never answer a question with a sensical response: "How tall are you?" "Tall enough to take you burger king on wednesday"

Keep in mind the heartiste's commandments of poon - "never be afraid to lose her"

Say something ridiculous - you'll be surprised what you get away with. Also bear in mind that she probably asks that all the time and chodes are giving her the height every time. Different = polarizing. Aka she gets pushed into the "no" or "yes" more quickly and it saves time.

SirKolbath · 2017-10-04T00:45:14+00:00

I am 5 foot 5 and I don't see what the problem is here. My Tinder game is on point because I am funny and girls never even bother asking me how tall I am. If they do, I always immediately ask them how much they weigh.

jus_chillin · 2017-10-04T02:54:55+00:00

I dont know what was going on with me, but she responded. I got seriously flustered, hot flashes and such. Just let off some steam at the gym but she responded.

ScottDurden · 2017-10-04T02:58:54+00:00

You should have just lied & said 5'10 or something. Anything <5'9 is bad in the eyes of a girl.

I'm 6'0 & sometimes I'll tell tinder sloots I'm 6'1.

Short girls don't have the perception to tell if you're lying about an extra inch or two.

Title	What do you suggest here?
Author	jus_chillin
Upvotes	0
Comments	30
Date	October 4, 2017 12:03 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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