i was dating a girl for a while before COVID and one thing that really annoyed me is that she started criticising me. Are these shit tests or narcissistic devaluation? Just curious. For example she would be soo critical of me saying things like

  • you kiss funny
  • you hug funny
  • you smell funny
  • you're wearing an old mans jumper
  • why did you act like that i bet he the waitress thought you were stupid
  • My cousins think you're quiet

I could go on and on. At the start of dating she was never like this, she idealised me.

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Is this her way of devaluation? some kind of narcissim/BPD of her? she has other red flags.

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Anyway usually i just laugh it off or make a joke but it's kinda annoying being with some so hyper critical. Also the funny thing is i dress very well, wear expensive cologne, etc so what she says is complete bullshit. Very strange.