What is frame?

821sleepingbag · 2018-10-25T16:26:15+00:00

Frame of mind, everything you say and do should come from your confident frame of mind. When you start saying beta blue pill shit it comes from a different frame of mind. Holding frame refers to saying and acting in a way that is consistent with an alpha frame of mind and not doing or saying anything that is outside that frame either by adopting the girls frame or having a weaker frame.

UnPawsed · 2018-10-25T16:31:20+00:00

Your frame is what you believe about yourself and how that belief affects your words and actions. A strong frame is demonstrated by the inability of other people to make you doubt that belief and to make your words and behavior fall in line with their take on you instead of your own take on you. And that take you have about yourself is relentlessly positive. In a sense, it's a delusion that actually bends reality to its will. I'll give you an example:

My sophomore year in high school I knew this kid. He was a turd. Everyone said he was turd. He was the little brother of the former star QB that nearly took us to the State Championship the year before, but he was nothing like his brother.

His brother was 6'2", solidly built, good looking, could throw a football a mile, and ran like the wind. And this rubbed off on his confidence. He carried himself like a Spartan and girls would line up to date him.

His little brother, on the other hand, was 5'9"ish, about 125-130 lbs (rail thin) and really kinda sucked at everything. And people literally talked about how much he sucked. He seemed like everyone's favorite target, honestly.

But somehow, he was either ignorant of this fact, or he was completely impervious to it. He walked those halls like he had everything in the world going for him. He strutted like boss. He talked like a boss. He would never stand down to anybody. I saw him get his ass kicked like 10 times I shit you not. But if you talked to him after he got his ass kicked you would swear he thought he won the fight.

His delusion seemed to know no bounds.

But by the time I graduated high school I could probably count on one hand the number of girls in that school he hadn't been with. Whatever the girls were saying about him to his back, they apparently were letting him say to them in the back seat of his car.

It took me years to figure out what I had seen there with that guy. Now I know it has a word. And that word is FRAME.

I hope that helps.

gay_farming · 2018-10-25T13:37:56+00:00

Sidebar.

Rosace_89 · 2018-10-25T14:38:41+00:00

What is Love ?

christophertracy92 · 2018-10-25T13:43:36+00:00

Frame is having yourself as your own mental point of origin.

Title	What is frame?
Author	streetlecture
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	October 25, 2018 1:27 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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