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Here’s the story. We both started talking towards the end of last year , around late November. I saw her on campus and had to approach. So we started talking and hanging out and things were really cool, I liked her company and could talk about a lot of things with her. I put it out there early on that I didn’t want a relationship which she said she understands and wouldn’t force anyone into one. So from then on things escalated we began to hang out everyday. However by this time I noticed things that I was spending less time with friends so I started hanging out with friends more and I did , she would cry (guy friends mind you). When other females that knew me approached me , she would later bring it up and start literally crying saying “ I shouldn’t even be nice to those girls”, even though they were female friends. I notice bad behavior on New Years when I said I wanted to go out with friends she went ballistic and started crying (meanwhile she was hanging out with friends). Anyways during quarantine things got worse with her anxiety (at least that’s what she blames everything on) , she would end up texting me every hour of the day ….and again would cry if I didn’t respond on time. Then she started checking females that follow me or that I follow on instagram and checking if I liked their pictures and then would accuse me of cheating. During that time my mom was mourning the passing of my grandmother , along with my exams and single handedly running my mom’s business I was stressed.

So I asked her for space which she refused and stated space meant we would break up I said “whatever” and got off the phone. I stopped talking to her for about a week which I didn’t mind but then her birthday came up so I messaged her saying happy birthday in which she responded saying thank you. However right after that she blocked me and even her friend blocked me on instagram. I became confused and had a dream she was with someone else and a wave of emotions came over me. I won't lie this girl did a ton for me she paid for almost everything , she knew I had my own money but even still. I never dated a girl who went this har for me as much as this girl did , I didn’t want to stop talking to her just wanted her to value my space. She blocked me EVERYWHERE! I tried reaching out multiple times , texting , email , another instagram account , asked a friend.(I know I know can't believe I did that)

She blocked me on June 2nd. I tried to help her out mentally by suggestion therapy and to join me with meditation. I’m really confused on this one y'all boys.

My mom is confused because I've never tripped over a woman and before this girl I was fucking a lot of girls on campus , this was no surprise to anyone. In fact the goal in the beginning was to smash and go but she held out on me for almost a month (which was a first for me). Some other girl I fucked was surprised I broke frame over this girl when I told her.

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TL;DR : Girlfriend wouldn't let me hang out with friends and would always cry if I did or if I talked to other female friends. She made me isolate myself from other people to give her security to avoid her anxiety. Expected me to text her every hour of the day and would blow up my phone while I was out over 20-30 times. Even with me not talking to other women she began stalking women on my instagram account to see if I liked their photos and accusing me of doing things constantly such as talking to other women. I asked for a break(or space to get my mind right) during exam week so I could better myself during the hard stress and quarantine. She then blocked me on all social media platforms and got her friends to block me as well.